Tips Jun 1, 2019 17:59

I was quite shocked by the case where a man “deliberately removed the condom during an intimate encounter.” He’s a despicable excuse for a man.

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This is definitely a red-card offense, so if the club doesn’t see it that way, then the club itself deserves a red card. If the club received feedback like that, shouldn’t it issue women a precautionary warning when making an offer, even before the report has been substantiated (although the man should be asked about it immediately with the woman’s permission): “※This male member has previously received feedback claiming that he ‘deliberately removed the condom during an intimate encounter’ (however, this has not been verified, so please treat it as reference information only)”? Isn’t the club’s response too lenient? Is there some issue I’m missing? Is this actually a much trickier matter to handle than an outsider might think?
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Maezawa here—I’ll answer as well. Since two people have already responded, I agree with their opinions. > Is this a particularly difficult situation to deal with? Yes, it’s a difficult case. First of all, even if the woman’s story is true, the man may simply deny doing anything wrong: “I kept the condom on the whole time.” “Couldn’t the woman be lying?” If he says that, there’s no way to know who’s telling the truth. So no matter how much we talk about a red card meaning forced removal from the club, it’s just a theory in practice. However, if you report it properly to the club, multiple women may eventually report the same man. At that point, we can determine that the man has been lying and issue a red card, meaning forced removal from the club. This is a slightly different kind of case, but we once received a report that, during a date, the man offered to buy the woman some clothes. While she was trying them on, he grabbed her bag and ran away. She said that she was now in trouble because she had lost both her cash and cards. Apparently, the security guards at the location had already responded, and she was planning to go to the police afterward. The guards had also said that there were security cameras and that the incident would have been recorded. If true, that would be an incredible story. But when we contacted the man, he basically said, “There’s no way I would do something like that.” In cases like this, we don’t know who’s telling the truth. However, if she had reported it to the security guards and the police, the man should already have been arrested by then. So we began to wonder whether he really had run off with her bag. He wasn’t given a red card, but we still don’t know what actually happened. (The woman must have had some reason for making that call.) I’m sorry if the club’s response seems too lenient, but there are many difficult aspects to these situations. That’s why I hope you’ll give us as much feedback as possible rather than simply putting up with things.
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