Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
Tips
📅 Nov 27, 2018 08:06
Sorry to bother you while you’re busy, but I have a question. It says female members can be up to 40 years old, but I’m 43. Does that mean I can’t register if I’m over 40? There’s no rush, so please reply whenever you have time.
Tips
📅 Nov 26, 2018 17:35
Which hotels have you had good experiences with during papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? Women’s opinions especially appreciated.
Tips
📅 Nov 26, 2018 17:33
People often say, “Women spend quite a lot getting themselves looking their best before coming on a date, so men shouldn’t be stingy,” but specifically, what do they spend it on, and how much does it cost? (I once had someone tell me, “I bought a new dress for our date!” and didn’t know how to respond.)
Tips
📅 Nov 26, 2018 15:05
I’ve heard that a true papa (a male supporter) deliberately avoids dates around Christmas, leaving those days to her boyfriend and all. Is that really the case? (To be honest, I’d love for her to invite me to dinner on Christmas Eve…)
Tips
📅 Nov 26, 2018 12:20
I’m a male member who always enjoys reading the Q&A section. I’m grateful to the respondents for sharing their various perspectives. However, lately I’ve noticed that some comments express opinions that are rather far from the norm—or at least that’s how they seem to me as just one observer. Some female members also seem to be using this Q&A section to form concrete impressions of the ambiguities surrounding dating clubs. With that in m...
Tips
📅 Nov 26, 2018 11:51
Do the staff understand the disappointment, emptiness, and self-loathing you feel when you pay a black or platinum introduction fee, only to find that the woman who shows up is a sex worker or a hostess? Is there really no good way to identify them beforehand? If this keeps happening, I’m going to want to cancel my membership.
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 23:27
If a woman behaves extremely rudely on the first date (arriving very late, cutting the date short, playing with her phone, ignoring you, making unpleasant remarks, etc.), do you still have to give her the minimum allowance of 5,000 yen? If I were treated that way, I’d want to leave without giving her even a penny.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Um… I completely understand what the questioner is trying to say. Especially since the men are also paying an introduction fee.
I can understand why you’d feel that way, but the woman who accepted the offer already knew in advance about the transportation allowance, so I don’t think it’s right to be reluctant to pay it afterward.
If anything, I think it’s important to clearly communicate those concerns to Universe as well.
It’s no different fro…
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 22:03
Can you recommend any good hotels in Tokyo that offer day-use plans?
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 17:46
Do salaried employees tend not to stay long after joining?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
There aren’t any salarymen among the people around me, but that doesn’t mean you have to spend a lot of money to have a good relationship. Some people maintain their relationships with great care and sincerity.
I believe it’s true that President Kida often says there’s no need to compete over who has the most money.
There are even men who maintain relationships without giving any money.
Finding someone among 8,000 people may seem costly, but I thin…
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 16:02
Do you give them your business card? (I usually give them one at the first meeting.) Can you really build a long-term, trusting relationship with a woman while acting as though you want to hide even your real name? How do women feel about being given a business card? (This question was inspired by Mr. A’s column, “I want to find a partner while remaining completely anonymous.”)
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I used to introduce myself as Saito, the columnist ♪, but I stopped. The reason is that women would tell other male members about me.
Some male members would ask, supposedly just as a topic of conversation, what kind of men they were seeing. There were women who ended up telling them because they seemed like nice people.
As a result, there was a time when it became known that I was registered with a dating club.
Since then, I’ve stopped handing out business cards and inste…
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 15:17
Is it really possible to wear beautiful clothes, eat delicious food, be held by a papa (a male supporter) I adore, receive an allowance, and even study abroad...?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
To add to what Mine-san wrote…
They definitely exist. No question about it.
You often see comments like that online too, but ultimately, I think the question is what percentage of them would be right for you.
It comes down to how attractive a woman you are to them.
There are women like that even if they aren’t conventionally beautiful, so I hope you’ll find that kind of man through Universe Club!
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 15:14
What are the unique advantages you can only experience through a dating club?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Speaking from the perspective of a male member, I’d say the people’s backgrounds are fairly reliable… wouldn’t you agree?
And, to put it delicately, there seem to be fewer disappointments…
On social media, people often heavily edit their photos, and I’ve even had surprising experiences in the past, like being introduced to cross-dressers or Chinese nationals.
Also…
Since both parties are clear about what they want, there’s no wasted time. It’s…
Tips
📅 Nov 25, 2018 15:11
Do you use your real name starting from the second date?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
If you’ve built a really good relationship, I think using your real name can be fine too.
There have been times when I’ve felt a jolt of anxiety because I was using a fake name—like when making a restaurant reservation where I was already known, or when I happened to run into someone I knew.
That said,
always assume the relationship could end.
To avoid trouble, I think it’s better to consider whether the other person is someone you’d still fee…
Tips
📅 Nov 24, 2018 19:23
I’m a male member, and I have a question about the post-date questionnaire. After being introduced, is it okay to complete the questionnaire not only when we actually go on a date, but also when the date falls through—for example, if she turns me down or stops responding?
Tips
📅 Nov 24, 2018 13:04
We broke up, reluctantly, because she wouldn’t agree to sex without a condom. I did what I could to be considerate as a man: a doctor’s certificate confirming I didn’t have an STI, a pledge not to have sex with any other women (including my wife—which I honored), using safe days together with the morning-after pill, and increasing her allowance. Even after taking all these precautions, was it still not acceptable?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
The questioner’s views on “going bare” are pretty shrouded in darkness, aren’t they?
I don’t think this is a matter of putting on a nice face.
If it were me, I’d do exactly what Takasaki suggested in their reply and cut him off quickly, just as the questioner said.
That’s all there is to it.
For someone who seriously works in the adult video industry, considering the shocking incident that happened recently, they may not want to go bare with a ma…
Tips
📅 Nov 23, 2018 18:08
When can I expect to receive the results of the pass/fail decision?
Tips
📅 Nov 23, 2018 17:01
I’ve heard they’re divided into categories A through D. Could someone explain specifically how far each group goes?
Tips
📅 Nov 22, 2018 18:06
Even without being told their rank, female members can get a rough idea of it from the class listed on the male member’s profile sent when they receive an offer and the date is confirmed, right? Seeing this, I realized I had been downgraded from the rank the men had already told me, and I’m a little hurt. Why are male members’ ranks displayed? Is there some reason for this?
Tips
📅 Nov 22, 2018 12:49
A pattern I noticed after receiving offers from more than 30 women: “The less pleasant a woman is, the higher her asking price tends to be.” Is this a straightforward chain of cause and effect—“unpleasant attitude → bad personality → self-centered thinking → higher demands”—or is it more of a feedback loop: “(the woman is) unpleasant → (she) dislikes me → (from her perspective, as compensation for having to put up with me) her asking pr...
Tips
📅 Nov 21, 2018 19:34
For male members: how long do relationships with female members typically last? Please share your own experiences. (1) What percentage continue after the first meeting—that is, result in a second date? (2) If things continue to a second date, how many dates do you typically go on on average? (3) How do these relationships usually end? Does one person say, “I don’t want to meet anymore,” or do they simply end when one person stops reachi...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
① Women I see a second time
50%
② How often I go on dates after the second one
Once a month. If I don’t meet another wonderful woman, I’ll continue indefinitely.
③ How things end
When I meet someone better than the woman I’m currently seeing, I gradually stop contacting her.
In some cases, I don’t even mark her messages as read. (I’ve come to feel that this causes fewer problems.)
I used to explain things properly, but I couldn’t seem…