I’m the type of person who can clearly say no when I’m uncomfortable, and the other day I went on a date through a club for the first time.

This was my first time meeting someone through the club, but even when I was asking the staff about him, there were several things that made me think, “Hmm?” The staff also seemed unsure, saying things like, “Do you think you’ll be okay…?” Apparently, he had had some trouble with women in the past. After meeting him, it was clear that he was hardly what you’d call a gentleman. Whenever he tried to do something I was uncomfortable with, I clearly told him I didn’t like it and refused. (As long as it was within the boundaries of what I was comfortable with.) If he took offense because I clearly turned him down and wrote something vindictive in the feedback form, can male members also see those reviews…? I’m worried that this might lead to fewer offers.