Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Nov 17, 2018 12:21
I’d been seeing her for about six months, so I thought I’d give her the princess treatment for her birthday. I rented out an entire restaurant and celebrated with her, but somehow that may have been what prompted her to cut ties with me. I’m honestly baffled. What happened? Did it scare her off? (By any chance, has anyone given you feedback about this?)
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m columnist Saito♪
Yeah, I know what you mean.
I’ve had a similar experience myself, so I completely understand why you’re left stunned and bewildered.
- She may have originally been thinking about ending things, but because he kept spending more and more money on her, she might have thought, “This is getting bad… I really need to cut things off.”
But I’m sure you felt that it wasn’t really like that at all!
That’s exactly how it was for me, too…
Sometimes the world i…
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📅 Nov 16, 2018 13:00
In a previous question, you mentioned whether there’s any demand for a married 40-year-old. But at 47, I assume it would be difficult… I’m also very average-looking, and I don’t have any impressive academic credentials. I’d like to register if possible.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Why not take that first step?
As you said, I also think getting an offer may be difficult, but since no one has met you in person, no one can really judge.
The most accurate information would probably come from interviewing with Universe and hearing directly from an interviewer with experience and access to relevant data.
Whether you pass or fail the interview, I think it will be a learning experience either way.
Best of luck!
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📅 Nov 15, 2018 21:37
How are female secret members introduced to men? More specifically, when are their profile photos shown?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I’ll speak as a current male member.
Out of nowhere, a staff member from Universe contacts you and introduces someone. It’s more like they show you her photos on the assumption that you’ll make an offer, I suppose.
(I’ll leave the explanation at that level of nuance.)
At first, I was thrilled, as if I’d received an invitation for a black card. But the women tend to be models or personalities registered with several dating clubs, or broke models …
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📅 Nov 15, 2018 14:44
I’m the one who received the answer (or perhaps a wake-up call?) to “She was an extremely beautiful model, but…” Thank you! I had completely overlooked the perspective of doing this for my own growth. I sincerely appreciate the eye-opening advice. That said, when you’re dealing with a model of this caliber—someone from a well-known magazine—is an allowance of 20,000–30,000 yen per pay-per-meeting pretty standard? It feels almost like pa...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the columnist♪
Thank you again for your reply.
Based on our previous exchange—
“Usually 200,000–300,000 yen, but for someone with special circumstances, I’d accept 100,000 yen,”
—I interpreted it like this:
“I’ve experienced arrangements in the 200,000–300,000 yen range before, but that’s in the past. It’s hard to find someone like that these days, and realistically, given my level, I guess 100,000 yen is more reasonable.
Ideally, I’d like to set my level…
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📅 Nov 14, 2018 23:19
I’m a female member. Is only one of the photos taken during the interview displayed? Also, I’d like to see the video myself! Is there no way for me to view it?
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📅 Nov 14, 2018 20:07
Do wealthy men also look for a certain level of education in a mistress? Or even if they don’t specifically require it, do they naturally find it difficult to connect with women without an academic background?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
As for educational background…
Personally, I’m more interested in someone’s “life experience level.”
I don’t know whether they qualify as wealthy, but men who dislike having their time taken up by speaking requests and unnecessary appointments often love getting comfort and entertainment from women, as well as hearing about things they can’t experience themselves.
There are plenty of wealthy people who only graduated from high school—or even middle…
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📅 Nov 14, 2018 16:59
Would it be possible to improve (?) the display order of this Q&A box? It seems that questions are currently displayed in the order they were posted, but depending on the question, it can take quite a while to receive an answer. By the time it’s finally answered, it may have ended up way down the list, don’t you think? In fact, I’ve sometimes completely forgotten that I even asked a question while waiting, and ended up missing the answe...
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📅 Nov 14, 2018 07:55
She was an exceptionally beautiful model, but it seemed her usual allowance was 200,000–300,000 yen, with 100,000 yen being the absolute minimum due to special circumstances. She apparently felt some affection toward me, and in my case, she might have accepted even that minimum (?). After much deliberation, though, I decided that “something beyond my means wouldn’t last” and turned her down myself. She was the kind of woman I may never ...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
It’s not too late to start.
Your circumstances can change, so go ahead and give it a try.
The real problem would be regretting that you didn’t.
If it no longer fits your means, you can always stop.
You won’t grow if you always date women from the same social circle.
That “Hmm…” feeling will be gone by the third time.
That’s the kind of experience a dating club offers.
Please take the time to consider whether the woman you thought was truly wonder…
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📅 Nov 14, 2018 01:54
I’m a woman thinking about joining as a Type A member. Rather than wanting to make a lot of money, I’m curious to talk with people I wouldn’t normally have any contact with. I’ve heard that Type A members receive very few offers. As mentioned above, I don’t mind having only a few offers, but if it’s once a year or less, I’m not sure it would be worthwhile. I’m average-looking. I’d appreciate answers along the lines of whether it might b...
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📅 Nov 13, 2018 23:56
I’m a female member who joined the club a week ago. The other day, I finally received my first offer, but for various reasons, I didn’t think I could meet the man’s expectations, so I turned it down. I haven’t started participating yet—not even once. If I receive another offer but feel that we may not be a great match, should I still try meeting him for dinner, just to get a feel for how things work…? I’m also worried about whether I’ll...
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📅 Nov 13, 2018 17:52
He apparently wants a threesome, but I don’t know anyone who would join us. Could one of the staff members help us out?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
Since the question doesn’t specify who the subject is, I can’t tell whether the questioner is male or female. I also don’t know whether the threesome in question is one man and two women or two men and one woman.
・If the questioner is male
There are surely women who are into that or curious about it, so try making lots of offers and see what you find. That way, finding someone to fill the spot should be quick. From my perspective, once you beco…
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📅 Nov 13, 2018 09:07
I was pretty surprised to hear that “the average length of membership for male members is two years and three months.” I had assumed that once you joined a dating club of this kind, you generally kept renewing your membership (I personally use several clubs, and there isn’t a single one I’ve withdrawn from yet). If the average is two years and three months, I assume that a fairly large number of men probably give up after just one year....
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📅 Nov 13, 2018 08:54
I’m in Marunouchi right now. Watching the office ladies coming and going, I find myself thinking, “I hope—or perhaps that time has already come—that we’ll see an era when they can freely and flexibly make use of dating clubs as a wonderful extra touch in their lives.” I’m truly happy to have made it in time for such an era. Do the staff members realize that they’re involved in the “business of making people happy”?}_久久爱ลดสปีด.} иҟаз.}જર...
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 22:38
I’d like some advice on how to write my profile. (The person asking is a male member.) I understand that, in theory, a profile should be written from the reader’s perspective. But no matter how much I think about how to make it reflect the perspective of the readers—in other words, the women receiving offers—I can’t seem to come up with any good ideas. Ladies, in videos you often say that you want to meet a man who is kind, fun, and sin...
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 22:16
I’m 45. If I had a mature, glamorous look, I’d think there might be some demand for me, but since I look young enough that, even after having a drink with a few people, I’m told, “You were born in the Heisei era, right?” I don’t feel confident competing with women my actual age. That said, I’m not really in my 20s, so I feel that people looking for youth might also be disappointed. Do male members choose solely based on a woman’s actual...
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 21:47
I don’t like IT entrepreneurs, so would it be possible to decline their offers if I receive any?
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 18:07
I joined a little while ago as a female member. Are all women except those in the Black class automatically listed in the new female members section on the website, which anyone can view? Also, if women outside the Black class aren’t listed, I’d like to know what determines whether they are included or not. If it’s difficult to say, you don’t have to answer.
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 11:54
I joined for the pleasure of discovering and unearthing “hidden gems.” I basically find them among the Standard members, polish them into Platinum, train them up to Black Class, and then return them to the sea. Are there any kindred spirits out there? I’d love to connect.
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 11:23
Having experienced the thrill of serious affairs—what people now call double infidelity—dating clubs feel a bit tame to me. How do you all use them differently? At least, you can see a lot more people through a dating club…
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Ah, yes, yes—I understand what the questioner is trying to say.
I often feel the same way.
Everyone is meeting more people, and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) has become commonplace.
I think it’s that “casual” aspect that makes it feel so lukewarm…
(Sorry if I’ve misunderstood.)
Once everything becomes saturated and the usual patterns start to become established, things get difficult.
The excitement of catching a fish for the first tim…
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📅 Nov 12, 2018 06:20