I’m starting to feel a little distrustful of the branch I’m currently with.
First, I was told that black tights (black stockings) weren’t allowed for my profile photos. It wasn’t said in the sense of “we don’t really recommend them,” but rather as a complete no-go. At the time, I thought maybe that was just how things were and borrowed nude-colored stockings instead. However, looking at photos of newly registered women, it seems that black stockings are fine at other branches...
There have also been many other things that make me question the branch, such as disparaging comments about women who left Universe, and being rushed to respond to messages about my profile, perhaps because they were watching the time. There are other things as well, but I’ll leave them out to avoid being identified.
I wonder if these kinds of issues are a major reason why some women leave shortly after registering. If it’s possible to change branches, I’d like to do so, but the only other branches are far from where I live. Would it be possible to transfer my current profile to another branch? Or should I withdraw once and register again at a different branch?
I look forward to your replies.
I’m Kida, the representative, and I’ll answer your question.
To cut to the chase, I recommend giving up and moving to another dating club or venue. Otherwise, your options are to put up with it or leave.
I’m sure many female members quit right away because they don’t click with the staff or find the staff’s attitude irritating. Of course, I agree that these issues should be improved.
However, even with the best staff, there will be women who simply don’t get along with them. And I also believe that being able to leave quickly is one of the benefits.
Have you ever interviewed with a nightlife establishment or another dating club?
Some places may be rude, while others are very polite. But it’s not a matter of one being good or bad—the purpose of an interview is to find a place that suits you.
For you, our company and the staff at that branch were a bad fit. I think it would be better for both sides if you chose not to continue with us.
Incidentally, judging only from the episode you described, I consider the staff at that branch to be good staff.
If they thought a woman was unlikely to receive any offers, it would have been easier to photograph her while she was still wearing black tights. If they insisted on having you wear nude stockings, I think it was because your legs have a beautiful shape and your skin looked lovely, and they wanted to capture that in the photos.
The slightly condescending comment and the fact that they rushed you to respond are beside the point.
You didn’t come in for an enjoyable chat with the staff, did you?
A place that only tells you about the good things is a bad place. A good place clearly explains the risks and the difficult aspects as well.
Once you go on dates, you’ll have to negotiate terms with men. It won’t all be pleasant experiences.
You’re using the club’s staff to find a male patron. This isn’t a world of easy wins.
There are probably many members who, like you, are irritated with the staff—or with me.
What I aim to create is “a club where the staff may be annoying, but you can reliably meet a good partner.”
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