Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Dec 2, 2018 00:49
I recently joined a dating club. I’m hoping to go on dates during weekday afternoons—do you think there’s demand for that?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I’m married myself, so nighttime is actually difficult for me.
Since many of the men registered with dating clubs are married, I believe there’s plenty of demand for arrangements limited to daytime as well.
With over 2,000 male members, there are men looking for all kinds of schedules.
I definitely recommend proactively letting them know which times work best for you.
Good luck!
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 23:27
There’s a service called matching counseling. What kinds of concerns can they help with? Please tell me about common相談 topics and how to use the service effectively. The person asking is a male member.
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 11:07
Question for female members: After meeting a man for the first time, if he doesn’t contact you, do you proactively send him messages or LINE texts saying things like, “I’d like to see you again” or “When are you free?” Question for male members: After meeting a woman for the first time, do you frequently receive messages or LINE texts from her saying things like, “I’d like to see you again” or “When are you free?” even if you haven’t co...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist and an active male member♪
I take the approach of never reaching out first and simply replying when I receive a message. There’s no need to force a meeting—I’m happy for women to contact me whenever they need me. So I’m always glad to hear from them. lol
Most of the messages I receive are about scheduling, such as:
“Would sometime between the ○○th and ○○th next month work?”
That said, if you’ve sent two messages and they’ve been read but ignored—or …
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 10:10
I’m a male member. I think it’s great that the club recommends STD testing. If I ask the staff whether someone I’m interested in meeting has had an STD test, would they be able to tell me? I don’t think it necessarily needs to be included on their profile, though...
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
I’d like to support Kida, the representative, too.
Takasaki, you’ve got this!
As for whether the staff would tell you if you asked them, I can’t say for sure.
If it were me, I’d search for “Partners Check” in the admin panel, find the relevant profiles, and tell you, “It’s this person and this person.”
If you still didn’t receive an offer afterward, I’d be thinking, “So you’re not going to make an offer?”
By the way, when a female member undergoes the test, it’s supposed…
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 08:23
It’s been fun seeing the different branches’ creativity and individuality coming through in the women’s photos. I’ve always liked Fukuoka, but recently I was surprised to see some artistic-looking photos from Niigata (were they submitted by the women themselves?). Is there more sex appeal in the Osaka branch’s photos because the Osaka staff have a higher “sexiness index”? Which staff member came up with that bed-photo-like angle?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Representative Kida here with a response.
Photography is an area our staff put a great deal of thought and effort into, so we’re genuinely happy to receive feedback like this.
Putting effort into photography isn’t about deceiving anyone. We hope our members will understand it as a challenge to express, even within a two-dimensional image, the many different qualities that make each woman appealing.
Thank you.
The sexiness of Osaka, the photography in Fukuoka, and Niigata’…
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 08:03
Can someone do something about these women who declare, “My type is Hiroshi Tachi or Yutaka Takenouchi”? It leaves me so crushed that I lose the motivation to make an offer.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I couldn’t help but laugh.
I could really feel how warmly the questioner feels about this.
This is Saito, the columnist♪
They’re extremely rare, after all…
Truly, only a handful of women…
The ones who actually say it out loud, that is♪ lol
Aren’t we the same way?
Still, I think we’ve come to realize that it probably doesn’t happen in real life.
Some people do dream about it, and it’s not impossible.
So let’s quickly make an offer to another woman♪
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 06:22
What are the rejection rates at the interview stage, broken down by gender?
💬 Answer from Responder:
Mochizuki from system administration here.
For women, we have accurate figures. According to our data from November 2018, 83.6% of women nationwide joined the club, meaning the rejection rate was 16.4%.
Unfortunately, we haven’t compiled statistics for men, but based on our experience in the field, more than 90% of men join the club.
We may decline membership to people who, when meeting us in person, seem unlikely to follow Universe Club’s rules or who behave arrogantly.
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📅 Dec 1, 2018 01:25
Do I need to go to the agency to cancel my membership?
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📅 Nov 30, 2018 21:00
Would it be a good idea to require all men and women joining the service to read the paperback “The Sociology of Papa-Katsu (Compensated Dating in Japan),” which you helped research?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, the representative, will answer.
Thank you for reading *The Sociology of Papa-Katsu (Compensated Dating in Japan)*!
I didn’t write it myself, but I think it’s an excellent book by a wonderful sociologist, Shingo Sakatsume, who interviewed people in the field and portrayed papa-katsu accurately.
I’ve come to regret not having myself and my employees read it thoroughly before requiring our members to do so.
That said, *The Sociology of Papa-Katsu* can be somewhat diff…
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📅 Nov 30, 2018 18:04
I’m the person who asked about receiving login details…! Even after logging in, I can’t tell whether my registration is complete. Could you explain a little more?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, your column writer♪
Rather than using the anonymous question box, I think your issue can be resolved in one call if you contact the branch where you had your in-person interview.
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📅 Nov 30, 2018 12:53
I’m a 23-year-old office worker considering re-registering. If I re-register, will my profile also be shown to male members who previously made me an offer? Also, will my personal data carry over from my previous registration? Aside from what I discuss during the interview for re-registration, is there any chance that information from my previous registration will be included in my profile?
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📅 Nov 29, 2018 23:43
It’s been about four months since I registered. I’m registered with my actual age, 50, but is it possible to change my age? I look like I’m in my early 40s, but do I have to register using my actual age?
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📅 Nov 29, 2018 22:29
I received the login information for the female members’ page. Does that mean my registration is complete?
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📅 Nov 29, 2018 19:35
My wife found out. However, I’ll admit it was satisfying to see her so shocked by the youth and beauty of the woman I was seeing, since I originally joined the dating club out of resentment toward my wife for constantly taking me for granted. Does this count as revenge, or was it just a foolish mistake?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, our representative, will answer this one.
I’m going to take the liberty of saying that I feel sorry for you.
You write such strong words, but I suspect that inside, you’re experiencing all kinds of emotions—love for your wife, regret, anger, and more. I’m sorry if I’m wrong.
Because otherwise, there’d be no point in asking such a nonsensical question.
“Is this revenge?”
“Is it nothing more than a stupid mistake?”
To those questions, my answer is:
“That must have b…
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📅 Nov 29, 2018 09:08
For male members of a dating club, having five or six women on the go is pretty normal, right?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the column writer♪
No, no—please go even further.
Please support lots of women.
I’m sure you can do it.
Go beyond the ordinary.
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📅 Nov 28, 2018 17:22
I recently had an interview, and I was told it would take about a week to get registered. How long does it usually take in practice? Also, roughly how long after registering do most people receive their first offer? m(_ _)m
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📅 Nov 28, 2018 00:33
I’m 36 and really struggling because I haven’t received any offers. I’m not good with photos and can’t smile naturally. I want to meet someone for a long-term arrangement, but if I don’t get any offers, I can’t even start a conversation. I’m not meeting anyone… I definitely don’t look 36 in person, though… I’d really like to meet someone…
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist and current male member ♪
I really understand your concerns.
While most women are struggling with these issues, there are also many who get a little overconfident after receiving lots of offers.
Please give Leaf’s advice your very best effort.
Actually, I think it’s the only way forward.
What should you wear?
When in doubt, go with the top option and wear that.
How should you take your photos?
If you simply do as you’re told, you may end up using a …
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📅 Nov 27, 2018 20:13
Why don’t men understand that it’s about the money? Is it their pride?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, the representative, will answer this one.
May I ask you a question as well?
Why is it that women don’t understand when we want to believe it’s not just about the money? Is it pride?
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📅 Nov 27, 2018 18:47
It says we’ll communicate via LINE, but do people exchange their real LINE accounts—the ones they actually use?
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📅 Nov 27, 2018 11:20
I’ve reached out to nearly 20 women, but not a single one has made it past the “third-date hurdle.” Is it normally this hit-or-miss, or am I being too picky? (In most cases, I’m the one who ends things.)
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito♪, a columnist and male member.
The questioner’s “Am I difficult?” caught my attention a little.
Could it be that you’re simply too serious?
That may be why you’re having trouble breaking out of your shell and keep making offers to women who are similar to you—or, even if they’re different, still within a narrow range.
If that’s the case, I don’t think making offers to women recommended by the staff will necessarily solve the problem.
What do you think?
How a…