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📅 Mar 3, 2026 12:58
I’m currently registered with this club, but I’m also considering joining another one. Could you recommend any good dating clubs?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
This isn’t a direct answer to your question, but when I was a student, I used to enter photography contests practically just to stir things up.
There were contests sponsored by film manufacturers like Kodak and Fujifilm, but for some reason, whenever I entered a film-related contest, I could never win. (Even though I could place in other contests.) I used to wonder why.
Years later, I happened to be reading a camera magazine and came across what was basically a roundtable d…
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📅 Mar 3, 2026 12:55
I saw a question about gift tax in the Q&A section, so I wanted to ask: Is the allowance received through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) subject to income tax or gift tax? Or does it depend on the terms of the arrangement? More generally, what percentage of people doing papa-katsu actually pay taxes? And if you do pay taxes, can your employer find out?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Is the allowance from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) subject to income tax or gift tax?
Please ask a tax accountant who specializes in this area. You could probably also ask the tax office, and they should be able to tell you.
Since you mentioned gift tax in your question, I assume you’ve read the previous information. It seems either one could apply, depending on the circumstances under which you receive the money.
> Does it depend on the nature of the relatio…
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📅 Mar 1, 2026 22:50
Regarding Avoiding the Risk of Married Supporters This is Yozakura, one of the respondents. There was some discussion about avoiding the risk of married supporters, and I’d like to ask for advice on a related matter. I’m a C-type, leaning toward D-type. (I believe you can’t know whether you click with someone unless you become intimate, so unless there’s a serious issue, I generally don’t turn anyone down.) However, considering the risk...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
>Considering the risks of married men, I’m wondering if it would be better to choose Type B2.
Even with Relationship Type C, both men and women have the right to decline. (The fact that you met through this service is all it means; what happens afterward is up to you.)
Since the first date will be a dinner date regardless of the relationship type:
Relationship Type C → You can confirm things during dinner
Relationship Type B2 → You can confirm things during dinner
So I …
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📅 Feb 28, 2026 12:51
In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I assume dates and meals themselves aren’t illegal. But in what situations would the woman be breaking the law if the relationship became an adult relationship (intimate)? For example, would it be illegal if there were evidence of money changing hands? I know that approaching men and soliciting them, like street-based sex work, is not allowed, but I’d like to know specifically what kinds of s...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I thought “sexual dating” was a pretty good term—a combination of “sex” and “dating.”
When you say “proof of a monetary exchange,” you mean proof of prostitution, right? Prostitution itself is illegal, but since there are no penalties for it, it’s supposedly okay.
“Approaching men and propositioning them, like street prostitutes do” falls under Article 5(1) of the Anti-Prostitution Act: “soliciting a person to become a customer for prostitution in a manner visible to the pu…
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📅 Feb 27, 2026 12:27
There’s a papa (a male supporter) I want to cut ties with. When I tried to end things recently, he flew into a rage—or rather, threatened me. He said he’d use a private investigator or anything else necessary and spend as much money as it took to investigate me thoroughly. He also threatened to track down my workplace and my parents’ home and expose me, telling me to be prepared. There were many other threats as well. He even said he’d ...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
It sounds like you’re going through a really difficult situation, and I agree with the other answers about what you should do specifically. That said, I can’t help wondering what your relationship with him was like before things got this far.
From the way you’ve worded your post, you seem to use the word “cut him off” rather casually. Is it possible you may have treated your papa (a male supporter) as if he were somewhat beneath you?
(I’m sorry if that came across as offens…
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📅 Feb 27, 2026 11:07
A man made me an offer, and the place the club sent me was an Instagrammable café. I’d been there with a friend before, and it was almost entirely young women, with the tables placed very close together. If the price range is about the same, I’d honestly prefer somewhere like Tsubakiya or Renoir. Would it leave a bad impression if I suggested changing the location before our first date? Since the café is on an upper floor of the buildin...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
>Would suggesting a change of location before the date leave a bad impression?
You haven’t met yet, right?
With Universe, the staff arrange everything, so you could tell them something like:
“I’ve been to that café with a friend before, and I’m worried I might run into them. Would it be possible to change it to a place that isn’t as popular with women?”
They’ll probably check with the man and get back to you.
It may depend on how you phrase it, but many women are concern…
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📅 Feb 26, 2026 04:49
My father joined Universe and paid for a woman my age. I also read Mr. Kida’s book, but it treated the family that was supposed to exist as though it didn’t. I’m not saying you have to stop, but is fulfilling your own desires really worth destroying your wife’s and daughter’s hearts and futures? If that’s what you want, you should have done it without starting a family in the first place. For those who have families, how do you view you...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I never had affairs while I was married.
That said, Japan’s legal system of monogamy only dates back to the Meiji era. You can see this by studying classical Japanese: polygamy was a status symbol among the aristocracy. As Makeotoko also points out, the idea that a polygamous system might actually help increase the population is, seriously, quite true.
Even when someone can love the same woman emotionally, many couples become sexless physically. Sometimes the cause lies wit…
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📅 Feb 25, 2026 20:59
I have a friend who always says things like: “He’s better at dates and intimacy than guys my age, takes great care of his appearance, gives me an allowance, respects personal boundaries, and is far more important to me than my boyfriend!” I completely agree with her, but have we both been influenced too much by papa-katsu? Has anyone ever developed a serious relationship through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I’m open to hear...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
When someone says “a serious relationship,” all I can picture is a naked penis, blade fully exposed, being sheathed in a vagina. So what exactly does the questioner consider a “serious relationship”? It’s not about whether money is involved or whether you’re getting married, right? At least, that’s not clear from the question.
Oh, is this actually a survey asking, “What constitutes a serious relationship?” If so, I’ve already given my answer. A relationship where, with both …
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📅 Feb 25, 2026 09:16
“I’ve had a vasectomy!!” Can I trust this? I’ve met him three times. He’s a papa in his 60s who runs a company and has a happy family life. When we met for the second time, he said, “I’ve had a vasectomy, so would it be okay not to use protection?” I refused, and he did use protection afterward. But he said the same thing again on our third meeting. Can I really trust him?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I’m more afraid of STIs than pregnancy, so please say no.
I’ve had around 20 cases, just through Universe Club, where the woman herself said, “I prefer it without a condom.” So it’s not only an issue on the papa side. There are a certain number of women who want to do it without protection, and there are papas who have done so with them. Maybe that’s why some papas mistakenly believe that “girls want it raw.”
Three of my monthly arrangement partners want to do it without a …
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📅 Feb 23, 2026 18:33
Why I Do Papa-Katsu (Compensated Dating in Japan) I met a papa (a male supporter) around my age through an app. He’s a really wonderful person, and he seems to like me too. However, he’s never been in an adult relationship (intimate) with terms before, and he feels that receiving an allowance is like selling or buying sex, or prostitution. He asked me, “Wouldn’t it be enough if I just paid for our dates and treated you to meals?” So I e...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
This is a survey asking, “Why do women receive an allowance through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?” For the questioner, it seems to be:
① Money to give herself some breathing room when she’s barely getting by. Well, money can mean different things to different people.
② Money as proof that she has value as a woman.
③ Money to pour into something—host clubs, starting a business, and so on.
④ Money she simply wants because she’s driven by greed.
⑤ Money that…
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📅 Feb 21, 2026 06:06
Sex with a man in his 80s I recently ended up having sex with a man in his 80s, but he was so soft that penetration was impossible. After I gave him oral sex, he got a little harder and ejaculated a small amount. He says it’s been over 10 years since he last did anything like this. He really wants to penetrate me, and I’d like to do whatever I can to help, but he has an enlarged prostate and says he can’t take medications. I’ve bought l...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
ICI injections are a good option. Here’s a copy-paste from an AI:
ICI injections (intracavernosal injections) are an ED treatment available to adult men aged 20 and over, with no upper age limit. They can be used safely even by older men, and are used by people ranging from their 20s to their 80s. They can also be effective for men who haven’t responded to Viagra or similar medications.
I don’t want to become the kind of 80-year-old who ends up that way, so my strategy is t…
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📅 Feb 19, 2026 14:52
I have a question about the allowance. I’ve been using a papa-katsu app and recently registered with Universe. Until now, I’ve usually met people for dinner at 20,000 yen or for an adult relationship at around 50,000 yen. If it was dinner only, I’d receive 20,000 yen, and if it included both, 70,000 yen. Is it okay to present the terms the same way at a dating club?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
If you’re offering 20,000 yen for dinner and 70,000 yen for an adult relationship on an app, then at Universe Club wouldn’t it be more like 50,000 yen for dinner and 100,000 yen for an adult relationship? After all, people go to Universe because the allowances on apps are too low.
Are you saying you’re hoping for 20,000 yen for dinner and 70,000 yen for an adult relationship on an app, but can’t find many matches? If so, I don’t think things would work out at Universe either…
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📅 Feb 19, 2026 06:56
I was dumped by my papa (a male supporter), whom I really loved. I want to get back together, but I don’t know what to do. He still replies to my LINE messages, but he won’t meet me. I’d be happy even if we just had coffee together. Please share your experiences with being dumped and getting back together.
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
That’s a tough one. There are all kinds of reasons someone might stop meeting up. This may go against the rules, but if you like him that much, how about trying the “I’ll treat you to tea this time!” approach?
If that still doesn’t work, move on to the next one.
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📅 Feb 17, 2026 07:58
For those of you who see someone on a monthly arrangement, how many hours do you usually spend together per date on average? I don’t mind long dates if they’re enjoyable, but spending a long time with a papa who isn’t very good at planning or making dates fun is painful. I understand that a papa-katsu girl’s job is to go along with a long date while smiling and lying, “I’m having fun♡,” in order to keep her papa, but I was wondering wha...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I don’t have that much experience yet, but probably around one or two hours? It may also be because I haven’t met anyone I’ve gotten close to over a long period of time. Keeping up with younger girls can be a little tiring for me too. I wouldn’t go so far as to call it a sales pitch, but I do try to play along, haha.
Whether we’re at a restaurant or a hotel, I usually signal that it’s time to wrap things up by saying, “I’m going to stay here by myself for a bit.” Everyone se…
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📅 Feb 16, 2026 11:36
I understand that the allowance varies depending on the woman’s level, but I’d like to know the approximate amount for each tier.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
The allowance doesn’t change according to the “class” assigned by Universe Club, but according to the “My Rank” decided by the papa. Alternatively, the allowance may stay the same while the frequency of meetings changes.
For example:
- A woman I meet ten times at ¥60,000 per meeting
- A woman I meet once every few months at ¥60,000 per meeting
That sort of thing.
As far as I’m concerned, the going rates for My Rank are almost exactly what Maezawa-san described:
Black Rank…
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📅 Feb 15, 2026 18:49
I’m thinking about registering with Universe Club once I turn 18. I saw that registration starts in April, but would it be possible to have the interview in March if I’m only doing the interview? Also, is it possible to be accepted at 18?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
At 18, your chances of being accepted are high.
That said, there’s no need to rush into a life that depends on other people and their money.
You’re young, so you should choose your own path in life.
If you ever truly need it, it won’t be too late to register with Universe.
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📅 Feb 15, 2026 18:20
How much allowance do you typically receive for tea, dinner, an adult relationship (intimate), or a monthly arrangement? Also, if the offer is lower than what you’re hoping for, how should you negotiate the allowance?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
It’s probably not a good idea to negotiate too aggressively. Some people, like me, will cut things off immediately.
I once asked a college student who was always seeing more than ten people at once, and they said:
“With people I wouldn’t mind losing, I state my terms firmly right from the start. With people I want to keep seeing, I ask what they’re looking for and say I’m willing to accommodate them.”
Hope that helps.
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📅 Feb 15, 2026 11:48
I’m a male member living in Kansai who joined recently. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) became widely known through the 2017 TV drama “Papa-katsu,” and compared with then, it seems there are now many more women participating. I’ve also heard that the current gender ratio in papa-katsu has shifted to around 2 men to 8 women. As a result, the going rates are apparently falling. When I asked an AI, it said the typical rates were: ...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
> What kind of appeal does it have?
I think it lets them live out a dream.
By that, I mean the pride, satisfaction, and sense of security that come from being with a woman who receives over ¥100,000 per meeting.
As far as I know—assuming what she told me was true—men who offer that kind of generous allowance seem to do so on their own, without the woman even asking. They think, “If I pay this much, I won’t lose out to the other men. I’ll be number one, and before long she’…
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📅 Feb 13, 2026 20:58
When I’m intimate with a man who has a fuller stomach, I feel pain. It’s always the lower part of the opening that hurts. It feels like the flesh of his stomach is pressing against and widening the opening, if that makes sense. I don’t experience this kind of pain with slimmer or average-built men. I gently told one fuller-built man that the opening becomes painful for me (of course, I didn’t say that it was because his stomach was pres...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
First of all, body shape can affect how your bodies press against each other. In particular, if the man has a thicker midsection, the angle and pressure can change depending on the position, and it’s quite possible for extra strain to be placed near the entrance. This isn’t unusual at all, and it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with your body.
Even so, being told things like, “Maybe you’re too loose,” or “Why don’t you work out more?” is incredibly inconsiderate. Blaming…
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📅 Feb 12, 2026 20:52
Regarding the “sense of money” written in women’s profiles. I often see women being asked about their financial sense during interviews and answering, “I think mine is pretty high!” It’s a complicated expression in Japanese, but in the context of a dating club, “I have a high sense of money” could mean either: 1. A negative meaning: she wants expensive things and expects a high-end lifestyle. 2. A positive meaning: she understands the v...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I see—when I hear “has high financial standards,” I can only think of interpretation ① (meaning I’d immediately rule out pursuing an arrangement), but I guess it could also mean ②.
People say, “I have ordinary financial sense,” but you don’t often hear someone say, “I have low financial standards,” do you…? Generally, they might say, “I’m practical” or “I’m a modest, down-to-earth person.”
So what would the opposite be?
If they wrote, “My financial standards are on the hi…