I originally had an eating disorder and weighed 38 kg at 160 cm, so all my papas kept telling me how skinny I was. My eating disorder still hasn’t gotten better, and I eat a whole pot of rice and at least five servings of udon every day. Because of that, I’ve gained up to 45 kg, and people don’t tell me I’m skinny nearly as often anymore. Am I getting too fat after all?
If a woman you’re seeing gained that much weight, you’d probably say she wasn’t managing her figure properly, right? The men who offered to see me when I was 38 kg probably like very skinny women, too…
I’m Dai, a male member.
At 45 kg, you’re still considered very underweight.
Even at 160 cm, around 50 kg would look perfectly healthy and attractive.
If you do decide to gain weight, please consult a doctor and do it in a healthy way.
It’s the same as dieting for an older guy.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
There really aren’t many men who like women who are painfully skinny. It’s off-putting—they have the same kind of body as a man.
You probably don’t have any muscle either; your body must look like a mummy. Please put on another three kilos of muscle. I honestly can’t understand what’s attractive about walking around with a flabby body.
Aren’t you embarrassed to say things like, “There’s something wrong with my body,” or “I have a mental illness”?
Why do you have to eat so much? Stop thinking about food all the time, get a job, and make your life more fulfilling. I’m genuinely worried about you.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, with an answer as well.
> Am I really too heavy?
Not at all. At 160 cm and 45 kg, I’d say you’re on the slim side.
The reason people no longer keep saying how skinny you are is probably that you used to be too thin.
While everyone may be more surprised by an extraordinarily thin figure, I’d be worried about your health.
If you can maintain your current weight of 45 kg, I think you should leave things as they are.
If you’re concerned, though, I feel like 44 kg might be a good target—since that rounds down to 40 kg.
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