Tips Nov 14, 2021 16:28

Have you ever accidentally found the social media account of someone you’re dating and been shocked by what was on it?

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From an ordinary person’s perspective, it can look like the kind of Instagram account that would be impossible unless they were involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or the adult entertainment industry, but doesn’t the person themselves care? Their boyfriend or family would have a pretty good chance of seeing it—or noticing it—too. Are they just too immersed in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to realize how it looks? Is that kind of thing impossible to hold back?
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. I’ve never come across a partner’s social media account. If you found one and it turned you off that much, why not end things and look for someone else? What exactly do you mean by an Instagram account that could only belong to someone doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or working in the sex industry? What makes a photo look like papa-katsu or sex work? Do you actually know?
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. These days, I think very few people don’t use social media, and when their content is particularly provocative, they often assume no one will find out. Still, that’s freedom of expression, so I don’t think you need to worry about it. Since you’re the one meeting her, you probably understand her best. Rather than anything else, I feel it would be enough to become her greatest ally.
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I’m Dai, a male member. Women who post photos of delicious food and drinks might make their Instagram accounts look a bit like papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). They’re probably doing it through a private account or something, so I think you’re worrying unnecessarily. I’ve even come across the Twitter and Instagram accounts of women who are idols.
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I’m Aya, a female member. I guess I have a strong need for attention and I’m not very smart. Even though bragging never does anyone any good.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I’ve never happened to come across one by chance, but the women I’m seeing have shared their Instagram accounts with me, so I do look at them. They mostly post photos of themselves hanging out with friends, so there’s no sense that they’re involved in allowance-based dating, and I’ve never been surprised by anything. I imagine the account you happened to find was specifically for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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