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Nov 12, 2021 00:07
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I’d love to receive an expensive present on Christmas Day, but I’d also like an advent calendar to enjoy in the days leading up to Christmas.
Whether it’s a cosmetics advent calendar or a sweets advent calendar, I’d be happy with anything.
Have you ever had a papa (a male supporter) thoughtful enough to do something like that?
Do I have to ask directly if I want him to buy me one?
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綾瀬なな
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Why is everyone so obsessed with brand names?
Personally, I think even a super-fluffy lap blanket would be lovely.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Personally, I don’t like advent calendars because they often contain things I don’t need, which just creates waste. So I never considered spending money on one.
If a good girl seemed to want one but didn’t ask for it, I might give her an advent calendar as a gift—even though I’m not a fan of them.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m at the level of not even knowing what an advent calendar is.
I searched for them on Rakuten, and they don’t seem to cost that much, so why not have the woman give one to the man as a present?
Rather than directly saying you want a Christmas present, it might serve as a subtle hint that you’d like one from him.
Though I could be wrong.
As I’ve written before, “giving is receiving.”
I think the key is not to always be thinking about what you can get.
茉莉花
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It starts getting seriously cold around Thanksgiving, and at the same time, you can feel the Advent atmosphere setting in. It’s such a lovely time of year.
That said, unless someone attended a fairly devout Christian school from at least middle school onward, I don’t think Advent will mean much to them. Or they may have grown up abroad.
Women probably know about Advent these days even if they didn’t attend a Christian school, thanks to all the commercial promotion around it.
Still, I think fewer people will understand it than Halloween.
So don’t get your hopes up.
Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think there are many papas (male supporters) who would share your excitement over an Advent calendar, so if you want one, you should make a proper pitch for it.
I thought Dior’s Advent calendar looked lovely, but I quietly closed the page when I saw the price.