I don’t want a papa—I want someone like Madame Dewi too (;_;). I’m so jealous. Are there any men who genuinely support someone the way Madame Dewi does?

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ You shouldn’t judge based on information that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

I’m Dai, a male member. There’s nothing to gain from envying other people. Rather than worrying about whether you have a man supporting you, I think it’s better to consider whether you’re the kind of woman a man would want to support.

People who look only at the results on the surface—without seeing all the effort and hardships behind them—and say, “Must be nice, must be nice,” are you actually making any effort? I can just picture the person asking this lying around eating potato chips while saying, “I want to lose weight…” Akari

I’m Aya, a female member. Madame Dewi was discovered at a club in Akasaka, went on to become the First Lady of Indonesia, then fled to France in her 30s after a political upheaval, and eventually began appearing on Japanese television as a celebrity in her 50s… She’s certainly led an incredibly eventful life. I don’t think she was simply someone who lived lavishly off the money President Sukarno showered on her. Since becoming a celebrity, she has embraced the spirit of “noblesse oblige” and taken part in various international charitable activities. (If you don’t know what noblesse oblige means, look it up on your smartphone.) Through concerts held by the Ibra International Music Foundation, which supports musicians from around the world, she helps musicians without money travel abroad. As chairwoman of the NPO Earth Aid Society, she also carries out various charitable activities together with the Japanese Red Cross Society and the NGO Association for Aid and Relief, Japan. I believe she is currently also devoted to animal welfare as a dog lover who keeps ten dogs. Last November, she donated two million yen to the Association for Aid and Relief, Japan. In this way, a person’s true character is tested by how they give the money they earn back to society. What about you, questioner? I just donated 1,000 yen at a convenience store.

I’m Kazu, a male member. What are you talking about? I don’t know if you read it in some article, but don’t get all worked up on your own and drag me into it. Take that up with your friends who love gossip magazines—or with whoever you’re dating.