Tips Nov 1, 2021 01:54

Once your feelings cool off, there’s no way to bring them back, right?

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I lost interest after being betrayed by the papa (a male supporter) who had helped me the most. It’s a problem when your feelings cool off in so many ways, lol. But they’re gone. I can’t treat it as a transactional relationship. Is there any way to get my feelings back? Please let me know.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering your question as well. Why do you want to rekindle your feelings when you’ve already cooled off and can’t accept this as a transactional relationship? Even if your feelings don’t come back, I think you can still continue seeing him. If you don’t want that, look for a new papa (a male supporter). This time, I suggest finding one who won’t betray you.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Even if feelings cool off, I think they can sometimes come back. As Mac wrote, people are capable of forgiveness.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I think meeting when your feelings have gone cold and you’re only doing it for the money makes both of you unhappy. It depends on how serious the betrayal was, but once your feelings are gone, it isn’t easy to bring them back. If you have happy memories together, the best thing may be to think back on them. You could even try visiting one of the places where you made those memories.
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If money is the main issue, your options are either to put up with it and keep meeting him, or work toward earning money in ways other than papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If it’s anything other than money, just forget about him and move on. Marika
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. The key to enjoying papa-katsu is not pushing yourself too hard. I think you’ll eventually meet a papa (a male supporter) who won’t let you down.
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