I’m a male member. Can I have the staff comments sent to women with an offer changed? I’m starting to think that lowering their expectations with a somewhat underwhelming comment might make it more likely that I’ll receive good feedback after the date. A woman told me that the wording currently seems to raise expectations a little.

I’m Fuu, a column writer. When making the offer, why not make the questioner’s profile public and have them add the comment they want there? The club staff’s comment only reflects the club’s impression of them, after all. It would be strange to change it.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t know whether they’ll let you change it, but if the comment is worded poorly, she might turn down the offer.

I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this too. > “I heard it from a woman.” There it is again—women giving away information. Because women like this exist, we’re no longer able to warn others by saying things like: “Be careful—there are allegations that this man is someone to avoid.” Or: “Watch out, because he may try to pressure you into going without protection.” This case doesn’t seem to be about anything like that, but whenever someone posts such comments, the man gets angry and contacts the club, saying things like: “Don’t write things without any proof. She’s only saying that—it doesn’t mean it actually happened.” Then the post ends up being deleted. Anyway, back to the main issue. If you consult the staff, they may change it if they find the man’s argument convincing. On the other hand, if they feel the information should remain available to women, they probably won’t change it. However, it seems there aren’t many particularly strong-willed staff members these days, so I have a feeling things will end up the way you want them to. Try contacting the staff.