I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Before becoming intimate with a papa (a male su...

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I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Before becoming intimate with a papa (a male supporter), should I always confirm whether he’s married? Should I ask him via LINE or another messaging app so there’s a written record?

Fuu · Answer

I’m Fuu, a column writer.

It’s unclear what the questioner’s intentions were, but if the papa’s wife were to sue them, it would be better for the questioner not to know that he was married.

Messages on LINE can leave behind evidence, so it would be best to stop communicating there.

Even if you suspect he’s married, don’t ask—pretending not to know will help protect you.

綾瀬なな · Answer

I’m Nana Ayase☆

I’ve never heard of that, but male members often disclose it themselves.

Apparently, some people don’t like being looked into that thoroughly, so please be careful.

カズ · Answer

I’m Kazu, a male member.

I’ve had adult relationships with dozens of women, but so far, no one has asked me to verify anything. So I don’t think it’s something you necessarily need to do, but if a woman asked and explained why she wanted to know, I’d probably answer.

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