I was also struggling with a papa who regresses into a baby. My babyish papa is a perfectly normal gentleman during dinner, but the moment we enter the hotel, he starts saying, “I can’t walk~ I’ll be able to move if I have some milk, babuu~,” and then the play begins. When he makes noises during intimacy, he says “babu babu babu babu.” Since he does this every time, it’s been really troubling me. Does he genuinely like this play? Why does he like it? If anyone knows, please explain.

I’m Fuu, a columnist. That papa likes baby play. It’s like when a woman asks why you like Korean idols—it’s hard to explain. It seems like you could make money by fulfilling his special requests. If you can tolerate it, going along with him might make him treat you well. If you don’t like it, just end things. Changing the subject, I’ve been to a high-end, authentic SM club in Ginza. It was the kind of place that actually had equipment for suspending people, cages, and everything. Men like company presidents, professors, and other well-dressed older gentlemen were down to their underwear, wearing collars and bowing before women in their twenties dressed as dominatrices. They were being stepped on with high heels—it really is a world that exists. Everyone has different preferences, and they seemed incredibly aroused by it. Fuu tried being tied up in a kikkou bondage pattern while topless, just out of curiosity, but it only hurt; I didn’t discover any hidden side of myself. When I took a woman in her twenties from a Ginza club there, she discovered her inner dominatrix surprisingly quickly and had fun slapping a strange older gentleman sitting next to her. I just thought of something. The women who trash their papas in anonymous Q&A boxes might be able to relieve their stress by working as dominatrices at an SM club or bar. They could make money as a part-time job too—a win-win situation and a chance to enter a new world, haha.

Try bringing a pack of diapers and really committing to it, then see if he’s pleased—that might help you gauge how serious he is. I just can’t help wanting to check things like this for myself. Marika

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. Even if you want to try something like that, most people couldn’t actually do it, so I’m almost jealous… You must really like each other and be completely comfortable with it. Being able to show your true selves like that, I imagine it must be a wonderful relationship.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer as well. > Does papa really like this play? Why does he like it? I’m not really sure why, but I assume he does it because he likes that kind of play. What people generally say is that they have too much stress and do this to relieve it. For example, I’ve heard of people who, in the middle of the day, soak in a lukewarm bath and then transform into a “baby.” Still naked, they go into the room and become an infant who can only crawl, drooling freely and behaving however they want to relieve their stress. Of course, that’s something you can do alone. But I suppose people with money may choose a version that involves adding a woman to the experience.

I’m Kazu, a male member. As I wrote in my answer here: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/9271 It’s simply a sexual preference. There’s no profound reason behind a preference like that. If a fully grown adult is willing to do something so embarrassing, they probably genuinely enjoy that kind of play. You could come up with a psychological explanation, such as escaping from stress, but that would only be speculation. If you like something, you like it.