On the contrary, have you ever met someone who gradually became emotionally unwell? Some girls may end up struggling because of the men they date. I feel it depends on whether you treat them with enough care and affection for them to rely on you, but have you ever met someone you genuinely wanted to help? Have you ever had to end things because the situation became more than you could handle?

I’m Dai, a male member. I’m not sure what you mean by “on the contrary,” but working in the nightlife industry often takes an emotional toll, to some degree or another. I think it can really get to you when you start wondering whether men are dating you because they’re genuinely interested in you, or just because they want your body. This wasn’t through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but when I dated a woman with depression, I took her to the hospital and stayed with her until she was able to manage it with medication. Even afterward, I genuinely wanted to help her, but I realized it would be difficult to stay by her side for the rest of her life, so we parted ways. P.S. To Mac: I see. Actually, the woman I mentioned above was my ex-wife. I realized I was depressed when I was a university student, and getting married made it possible for me to take her to the hospital. It took ten years before she was able to manage her condition… Until I separated from my wife, I had never been with another woman, so after the divorce, I’ve been letting loose and having a lot of fun, haha.