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Oct 13, 2021 12:48
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I’m desperately searching for someone good to meet next.
How can I tell the difference between a baby-faced guy in heels and a genuinely good person?
I want to meet someone I can trust enough to turn to first when I’m having a hard time, someone whose character I respect and whom I feel I could truly love.
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👨 Male
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I believe relationships formed through an exclusive dating club are highly demanding, high-level relationships involving financial support and based on an adult relationship (intimate). Well, I suppose that’s only natural…
Even in relationships without money involved, both men and women try to show each other their best side, after all(笑)
That said, no matter how you meet, you don’t know each other at first. So I think it’s important to proceed carefully and gradually get to know one another.
Also, there probably isn’t a man who can meet every single requirement, so I think it’s best to decide roughly what you’re willing to compromise on before entering into an arrangement.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Let’s study pro wrestling.
With a few exceptions, babyface wrestlers tend to be odd, eccentric, or downright crazy people. Take Ibushi, for example.
On the other hand, genuinely good people can also play heels.
Tanahashi is about the only true babyface among the babyfaces.
So, try looking for someone who’s a babyface but can also play a heel.
A good example is EVIL from New Japan Pro-Wrestling. He’s an absolute heel, but deep down, he’s a very serious and genuinely good person.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
With enough experience, you may eventually learn to tell the difference.
But perhaps you’re expecting too much from men. And in relationships, it’s rarely the case that only one person is at fault.
I think you learn through experience how much you can reasonably expect from others and how to build relationships with them.