Is it over if she stops making eye contact during intimacy?
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She no longer looks at me, and even her smile seems unnatural.
Honestly, I have an idea why. I thought I’d managed to lie convincingly, but...
Have I hurt her?
Sorry for the confusion. I’m a male member.
I’m in Seattle.
There’s a woman I’m quite deeply attached to and care about, and I wonder if she found out I’d been seeing lots of other women.
There’s no magic cure, so all you can do is consistently build up goodwill and show her over a long period of time that you value her again.
Although I said there’s no magic cure, maybe a large sum of money can work wonders. In my case, I once apologized to someone I’d been seeing for seven years by gifting her several hundred thousand yen toward orthodontic treatment and hair removal.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it necessarily means it’s over.
If you can think of something you did that may have hurt her, why not talk to her about it or apologize?
I have to question the attitude of asking strangers who don’t know the situation on a site like this.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here.
If you have an idea what it might be, I think that’s probably the reason.
That said, if she’s still meeting with you, you may have a chance to turn things around, so there could still be hope.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If you have an idea of what might have happened, I think it would be better to talk about it honestly rather than lie.
The fact that she won’t make eye contact may mean she’s unhappy with your insincere behavior.
In any case, I don’t know what you’re referring to, so I can’t say much more.
Even if she’s dissatisfied with you, it seems likely that she’s only accepting your advances because she needs the money and feels she has no choice.
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