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Oct 11, 2021 14:05
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering as well.
> If I have stretch marks on my stomach, should I mention them during the interview?
There’s no need to disclose stretch marks.
That said, the staff want as much information as possible (mainly because they’re afraid of complaints from men), so you may occasionally run into a staff member who asks about them.
What they usually ask about is whether you have tattoos or any large scars, and if so, where they are and how big they are.
> I’m also wondering whether marks like that affect whether you’re accepted.
Since they don’t ask about stretch marks, they won’t affect the decision.
Many women with tattoos are accepted, and some people with large surgical scars are accepted too. Given that, I don’t think scars and similar things generally have much impact.
Also, even if they do happen to ask, you only need to avoid lying.
You could answer like a politician:
“We will carefully examine the definition of stretch marks, consult with experts to determine whether anything meeting that definition exists, and make every effort to report the results as soon as possible.”
But that might make you sound like a difficult person and get you rejected, so something like:
“Oh, you’re asking about that? How embarrassing…”
might be better.
> If I’m accepted and seem likely to become intimate with a man I had dinner with, would that still be unacceptable?
I think it depends on the person.
I feel like more people probably wouldn’t mind.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I think stretch marks are fine even if they aren’t disclosed.
I was surprised once when I found out a woman had had a C-section. I remember thinking it would’ve been nice if that had been included in her profile.
Some female members do disclose scars or tattoos.
There are no physical examinations, and these things don’t affect whether someone is accepted. However, if you’re hoping to continue seeing a man, there’s a difference between him knowing before making an offer and finding out only after the offer has been made. If it’s listed in the profile, he can make the offer with a full understanding of the situation, which may improve the chances of continuing the relationship and leave a better impression.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Universe Club isn’t an adult entertainment establishment, so there are no body checks or trial sessions.
I have stretch marks too, so don’t worry about them.
They’re not only interested in your body.
Offers are made based on the way you carry yourself, your outlook, and things like that.
Please don’t worry.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think you need to disclose stretch marks.
There was a question about stretch marks before:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4273
That said, as Dai mentioned, I do think it’s better to disclose whether you’re a single mother and so on, since it would likely affect things like the times you’re available for dates.
If I know you’ve given birth before, stretch marks wouldn’t bother me at all. If I didn’t know, I might be a little surprised, but it wouldn’t be something I couldn’t accept.
P.S. Do adult entertainment establishments conduct physical examinations?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think stretch marks themselves will affect whether you’re accepted.
Offers can also vary depending on whether you’re a single mother or married, so please disclose that during the interview as well.
If you’d prefer that information not be shared with everyone, be sure to mention that at the same time.
There are probably men who are interested in women who can produce breast milk, so women who have given birth should have some demand as well.