Tips Sep 30, 2021 08:18

He has never shown me his STI test results, even though we have sex without protection.

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I don’t even know whether he gets tested. I’m seeing only him. I know that if he passed something on to me, I’d go from loving him to hating him, so I’m scared to ask. What should I do?
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. > I’m afraid to ask because I know that if they passed it on to me, I’d go from loving them to hating them. If you love them that much, I think you should simply trust the person you love. As for whether you’d really come to hate them if it had been passed on to you—that’s something you can only know then. There’s no point worrying about it now. If you love them, trust them. I think that’s all there is to it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t think you really need to do anything in particular. Showing test results doesn’t necessarily mean everything is fine, and I think everyone is entitled to their own way of thinking about it. For example, saying, “If you show me test results dated within the past week, I’m okay with not using a condom,” is also a valid option. By the way, I get tested regularly, and apparently the women do too, but we’ve never shown each other our results. Also, you said, “They’re having unprotected sex with me,” but that also means, “I’m letting them have unprotected sex with me.”
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