Tips
Sep 29, 2021 00:23
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For example, if she did papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), you might think, “She’d do well if she wore this kind of outfit, took photos from this angle, and wrote something like this in her profile.”
Or even outside papa-katsu, you might think, “She’d make a lot of money working at a hostess club.”
Even if you knew what would work for her, you probably wouldn’t tell her, right? Because you wouldn’t want another man to take her away.
5 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’ve occasionally talked here about helping a favorite girl build her future, and I believe the goal should be to help her graduate from papa-katsu as soon as possible. To me, supporting a woman means guiding her toward establishing a stable foundation for her life while she’s still doing papa-katsu.
Papa-katsu isn’t something you can do forever.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think in terms of her being taken by another guy, so I’m happy to advise her on how to get more offers.
I’ve also given a heads-up to a staff member I’m close with before she went in for a reshoot.
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I’ve given clothes and a necklace as gifts to women I was about to photograph again.
Thinking about it now, I wonder why I did that, lol.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kaz, a male member.
As you can see from the answers I post in the Q&A box, I’m happy to share my thoughts and offer advice about dealing with other men.
But I don’t give advice like, “Wear this kind of outfit” or “Use this angle.” Every man has his own preferences, and I don’t believe something as simplistic as increasing offers through photos really works. I occasionally see questions in the Q&A box like, “What type of woman is popular with men like this?” Women also ask me on first dates, “What type of woman do you like?” But I honestly think questions like that are completely nonsensical.
Saying that you can earn more at a hostess club is entirely the territory of a scout. Even a good scout should listen to the girl, introduce her to a club that seems to match her preferences, and then follow up to ask how she felt after working there—in other words, provide genuine consultation.
It’s not that papas won’t tell you. I think decent people simply don’t pretend to know things they don’t understand.
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Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
My papa probably wouldn’t think that way… He tells me, “You can’t even drink, and you’re terrible at lying, so you’d never make it as a hostess or in the sex industry, lol.” I’ve done everything except sex work, and I can totally drink champagne, though.