Do you date with the possibility of getting pregnant in mind? There are so many older men who insist on having sex without protection—if I got pregnant, would they of course cover all the related expenses, as well as pay me enough compensation to support me for the rest of my life?
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Why does it have to be unprotected?
I couldn’t go through life carrying the fact that I had a child with some strange older man.
To erase that fact, I’d want at least 300 million yen.
A friend of mine got pregnant even though he pulled out, and now I’m starting to feel anxious.
Apparently, having an older father increases the likelihood of the baby having a disability.
Getting only 50,000 yen per pay-per-meeting while taking on the risk of pregnancy every time is far too little…
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
> I hear that older sperm increases the likelihood of the baby having a disability.
Even before that, I didn’t realize that sperm motility declines, making natural conception more difficult.
So I was surprised to learn that Junichi Ishida—the actor who famously said, “Adultery is culture”—needed in-vitro fertilization.
After all, he had naturally conceived children with his previous wife, so there wasn’t anything specifically wrong with him.
What surprised me at the time was that his sperm had declined with age, and by 55 he had lost the ability to cause a natural pregnancy.
So, since the sperm itself has deteriorated, I assume it often can’t even reach the egg in the first place.
Of course, some men don’t experience this decline, so pregnancy is still possible and contraception is necessary.
But when considering the percentage of babies born with disabilities, I feel there are probably more men who lack the ability to cause a pregnancy in the first place.
> Why do you have to do it without protection?
What good does it do to write that here?
You should be saying that to the men who want to do it without protection.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve mentioned this before, but unlike younger generations, older men generally didn’t receive sex education that covered STIs, AIDS, gender equality, or safe sex as a given. So if someone won’t listen, there may be no changing them… It’s also a matter of character, and trying to change them may only wear you out. Just cut ties…
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s difficult to get men who say things like “without protection…” to understand.
As the saying goes, “A wise person keeps away from danger.”
You simply shouldn’t get involved with men like that.
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