I was thinking it would be nice if my allowance increased a little, but I’ve realized how much I had failed to “know when I have enough.”
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I was also browsing the app to look for another papa (a male supporter), but there wasn’t a single person I wanted to meet. Even just thinking about meeting someone else and possibly being intimate with them when I already have someone this wonderful makes me recoil so strongly.
I think I’m going to delete the app and settle down.
I’d also love to hear about your experiences of learning to “know when you have enough.”
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I joined the dating club hoping to find someone I could see regularly and be intimate with, but I found one woman who was willing to genuinely connect with me. We’ve been getting along well ever since.
I’m one of the less-affluent members of the club, and one person is more than enough for me, so I haven’t made any further offers.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
In business, it’s common to get multiple quotes, so whether I’m on the client side or the vendor side, I’m constantly reminded of the importance of knowing when you have enough.
That said, I don’t think saying, “I’d be happy if my allowance were just a little higher,” contradicts the idea of knowing when you have enough.
I do question trying to get a higher allowance without doing anything in return. But figuring out what your dating partner wants and asking for an increase in allowance in exchange for addressing that need seems perfectly normal to me.
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