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Aug 11, 2021 12:35
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Honestly, I found that way of thinking incredibly shallow.
Followers can be bought for a little money, after all. Photos are heavily edited, and everyone seems to carry similar luxury brands because they want to attract compensation.
I don’t think the respondents here share the mindset of the man who asked that question, though.
I have Instagram too, but I simply and casually post photos of my hobbies. I only have around 50 followers—real-life friends and acquaintances—so I wonder whether men with the values mentioned above would look down on me as well.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Mazae from the CEO’s office here, too.
> “You can buy followers if you spend a little money.”
That may well be true, but the people who say things like that are usually the ones who can’t actually increase their follower count.
It’s easy to do—in theory.
But if you tell them, “Okay, then make me an account with 500,000 followers right now,” they can never seem to actually do it.
A classic case of “easier said than done.”
They say, “You can buy them if you spend a little money,” but they’ve never actually bought 500,000 followers or managed an account with that many.
They just say they can do it, but they’ve never commissioned anyone, so they don’t even know whether it really works—or where to buy them.
And even if they could buy them, what would be the point if the account looked obviously suspicious to everyone who saw it? Maybe they never think that far ahead.
I feel like they should actually buy the followers, run the account, and then say, “See? It was easy. I could do it too,” after proving it first.
Ah… I’ll do it tomorrow… I swear!
When exactly is “tomorrow”?
Ah…
Tomorrow…
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Some men do see value in women who have a lot of Instagram followers.
But isn’t it up to each man where he finds value?
That man probably isn’t looking down on women with fewer followers. He simply wants to sleep with someone famous.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Even I have around 190, I guess. Mine are mostly about my hobbies and my child’s—our love of ice cream, cats and dogs, modern architecture, rose gardens, and things like that. We just gaze at them dreamily.
I’m broke, so we can’t travel or anything. I also like the Ikkyu Instagram and just look at the delicious-looking food (*´﹃`*).
Don’t you think people who show off brands are poor at heart?
Just because I have a lot of followers? It’s really nothing special.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
“I want to meet someone nice” (= “I want to sleep with lots of nice people?”)
“I want to meet someone who’s right for me” (= “I want to date someone who’s right for me?”)
They may sound similar, but they’re different.
Everyone has different priorities when it comes to what they value and where they place importance.
Personally, I’m not very interested in things like Instagram.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I know this from having managed a certain social media platform before: followers can be bought, and countless sponsored-post offers come in. My private Instagram has around 1,500 followers, but I got tired of it all, so I made the account private and now only use it for browsing.
My papa (a male supporter) doesn’t use social media at all and shows zero interest in my account, which makes things easy. Papas who go through your social media are creepy, aren’t they? Surely there aren’t any like that… right?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s pretty hasty to see one post by a man with an extreme viewpoint and then ask, “Are there really that many people who believe that ___ is a woman’s value?” (lol)
Also, something I’ve come to realize again since becoming an answerer is that even impulsive people can make money.
In fact, there are plenty of ways to make money in this world precisely because people dive in without overthinking. I can’t be that bold myself, so I have a certain amount of respect for it.
Other
People who are happy to make offers to Instagrammers with lots of followers are satisfied with that, so good for them. I wouldn’t look down on them, but they can go ahead and follow popular people around, wagging their tails, and let themselves get fleeced, lol.
Normally, like you, people probably share and enjoy photos of their hobbies or trips with real-life friends they don’t see all that often.
Besides, you generally wouldn’t give your Instagram account to your papa (a male supporter), would you?
Marika