I’m a male member who only recently learned about something called a letter date.
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When it comes to a letter date, is it acceptable under the dating club’s rules to tell the woman the allowance amount in a polite, non-offensive way?
Even when I find a woman appealing, I hesitate a little to make an offer if she’s a Black woman whose allowance is ¥100,000. However, there are several women I’m considering offering ¥50,000 to, provided they’re okay with that amount.
Regardless of the class assigned by the club, I usually offer around ¥120,000–¥150,000 to women I personally consider Black, and around ¥80,000–¥110,000 to Platinum women. But if stating the allowance amount is against the rules, would it be acceptable to say something like “ten Yukichi” as if it were a code phrase?
For women who live outside the major cities, it can be difficult to travel to meet them, so I feel it might be more efficient for both sides to state the allowance amount in advance through a letter date and first ask whether they feel I’m worth meeting.
*I’m prepared for the possibility that they’ll turn me down after meeting me because I’m just that unattractive.
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
> There are a few women I’m considering offering ¥50,000—half the allowance I would normally propose—if they agree after I present the amount.
I think you’ve misunderstood something.
A letter date takes place after you’ve paid the setting fee. Therefore, you can’t present the allowance amount before making an offer.
That said, why is someone this cheap even a member?
If you go to a sex service, the prices are listed, so you should simply look for someone you can have H with within your budget.
Now that the male rating system is in place, I’d like the women to leave plenty of low ratings and feedback whenever they’re offered a low allowance, saying, “I felt this man wasn’t suitable for Universe.”
Hopefully, people like this will gradually disappear from Universe.
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I’m a male member, Dai.
With a letter date, the club is only involved until the initial exchange of emails.
So after that, you’re free to tell her that you’re thinking of an allowance of “twelve Yukichi”—¥120,000, essentially.
However, if you meet her and then say, “Actually, by my standards, it’s two Yukichi”—¥20,000—you’ll probably get some very negative feedback.
Honestly, I do wonder whether someone who’s trying to save on the ¥100,000 offer fee would really pay ¥120,000…
It also feels like negotiating by slapping someone in the face with a stack of bills.
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What exactly do you mean?
I read it as: you state the allowance amount before making an offer, and only make the offer if she agrees. Is that right?
In a world where the chances of successfully dating a woman from a dating club are far higher than in ordinary dating, are you trying to make things even more certain and efficient?
And is the idea to see how little allowance you can get away with paying?
It’s not even about the amount of the allowance—it just feels wrong.
I’m sure a lot of men who’ve struck out during allowance negotiations are thinking, “How is that even okay?”
The club itself won’t make any money if it goes back and forth mediating questions before an offer, only for the man not to make one in the end.
Honestly, it’s a shitty idea that benefits no one.
Oh, I guess it does benefit you...
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it technically violates the rules, but try putting yourself in the woman’s shoes and really think about how it feels to be told by someone she’s never met and knows nothing about that he wants to have sex for 12.
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