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Jul 30, 2021 01:56
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Even if it’s a reverse offer, the man still pays the club’s introduction fee, right?
Has anyone who received a reverse offer ever turned down the opportunity to meet?
I’m worried it would be embarrassing if he rejected me, and I don’t even know what area he’s in, so I’m not sure whether I should put in a request.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I don’t think it was me, but just to be safe, I turn down unsolicited offers.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
For how to make a reverse offer to an answerer, please refer to my previous answers:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5351
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5152
You still have to pay the setting fee even for a reverse offer. These days, there’s also the letter date option, so if you’re okay with that, you can keep the setting fee down. This way, even if you’re in different regions, you can start communicating directly.
I’ve never turned down a reverse offer myself.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve never received a reverse offer, but I actually once asked Maezawa-san whether I should try making an offer to one of the respondents myself (before I became a respondent).
The woman didn’t seem opposed to it, but when I heard where she lived, I decided to put things on hold since she was a bit far away and I thought it might be better to wait until after COVID.
It might have a lower rejection rate than simply saying, “You seem wonderful.”
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I don’t think there are many men who’d actually dislike being asked out by a woman.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who’s starting to lose interest in making offers and is even considering leaving, so I think a reverse offer might be interesting?? (Ah, I’m probably not who you were asking.)
> Have any men ever turned down a meeting after receiving a reverse offer?
From the man’s perspective, it would be very interesting and a valuable experience, so I imagine most wouldn’t turn it down. I’ve never declined one.
If the person asking is that interested, it sounds like things could develop smoothly into actually meeting.