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Jul 28, 2021 23:33
8 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m voting for Paper Airplane and Flag Maker’s “unfounded confidence”!
I do wonder about the number of offers, but regardless of how many there are—even though I’m a wrinkled old man and get turned down for offers—
I, too, have one thing going for me: completely unfounded confidence（笑）
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
A lot of men also ask the club how many offers someone has received, so I can see why you’d be curious.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’ve asked the club how many offers a woman has received.
Naturally, I’m more cautious with women who get a lot of offers, since they also have more competition.
When I actually go on a date, I ask her about it as a conversation topic.
It’s interesting and informative to hear what kinds of dates she’s had with other men.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
I find it interesting. It’s pretty fascinating, actually. Some women I thought would be flooded with offers turn out not to be, while others I assumed wouldn’t have anyone besides me end up having quite a few. They could be lying, of course, but that’s part of what makes it interesting.
But then I’m stuck when they ask, “What about you?”
Should I play coy like many women do and say, “You’re only my third one〜teehee,” or try to look cool and say, “I stopped counting after 100”?
No matter how I answer, I can only imagine them being completely turned off（笑).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It does make me curious, though.
I’m also the type who has this unfounded confidence that, apart from the allowance amount, I could absolutely outdo any other male member:
> I’m confident that I’ll be chosen whether I receive a lot of offers or only a few.
For some reason, I have a strangely strong confidence in that.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
I’m always asked how many offers I have. Maybe they’re asking the staff, but they ask me directly too. So I ask them as well: “About how many people are offering you dates? And how many of those arrangements are ongoing?”
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Saying I’m not curious at all would be a lie. But even if I asked how many offers she’s received, there’s no guarantee she’d tell me the truth, and I wouldn’t gain anything by knowing anyway. So it’s more like, “I’m curious, but I don’t ask.”
Besides, I have this completely unfounded confidence that I can beat the other male members in every way except the allowance amount and looks.
Of course, I do lose sometimes. But deep down, I’m thinking, “You really don’t know how to judge people. What a waste.” Though maybe that’s just sour grapes, haha.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
When I say I’m interested, I mean it in the sense of finding something intriguing.