Tips Jul 28, 2021 19:54

I can’t meet my papa because of the state of emergency, but he emails me constantly. (He doesn’t use LINE, so we communicate via Gmail.)

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He lives outside the city and is married, so apparently we can’t meet right now. We’ve known each other for about three months, but does this mean things are already fading out naturally? If so, my allowance will decrease starting next month, and I’ll be in a really difficult situation.... His emails say things like, “I miss you because we can’t see each other.” If the number of infections keeps increasing like this, we might not be able to meet next month either. But it’s probably not a good idea to talk about money too much, right? What should I do...?
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ I also get lots of emails from people I’ve cut off, saying they want to meet me, but some of them clearly have no intention of actually meeting. Maybe they’re just keeping me as an option. I decided to say goodbye because it was a waste of time. They’re all talk and can’t take action… They probably can’t get much done at work, either.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well. > But it’s probably not good to talk about money too much, right? What should I do...? I think it would be best to maintain things as they are with that man and wait until the COVID situation settles down so you can meet again. As more people get vaccinated after autumn, I feel there may be a greater chance of seeing each other. Until then, I suppose you’ll just have to be patient. Also, I think it would be a good idea to find a new man as well.
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I’m Karasaki from Universe Club Customer Success, and I’d like to answer as well. If he’s reaching out, doesn’t that suggest he also wants to meet? Why not suggest a specific date yourself, or let him know that you’ve finished getting vaccinated?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
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I’m Dai, a male member. If you’re still keeping in touch a lot, I don’t think the man is trying to let things fizzle out. With a long-distance arrangement, though, I think it often naturally fades away when the man asks, “Would you be able to meet on this date?” and the woman keeps replying, “I already have plans that day, so it’ll be difficult.” Before COVID, I often traveled from Aichi to Tokyo for business, so I would make offers to women in the Kanto area. But after COVID started, I began going to Tokyo much less often, and a few of those connections naturally faded away.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. If that man can’t come, I think you should go meet him instead.
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