Recently, my papa (a male supporter) has started wanting to leave hickeys. He asks me during intimacy if it’s okay, so I’ve been dodging the question with an “Ehh, lol,” but he seems like he’s about to do it anyway, as if to say, “Oh, come on, it’ll be fine.”
I receive an allowance in exchange for spending several hours together, so if he wants to leave a hickey that lasts for several days, I want extra compensation.
However, there’s a chance he might cut me off if I negotiate my allowance or refuse a hickey, so I’ve been putting it off. Should I just give up and let him cut me off?
It’s not that I want an allowance without sex—I simply hate hickeys that remain visible. I don’t want people telling me, “Just let him give you a hickey.”
I don’t understand why he wants to leave one in the first place.
It’s a problem because it means you can’t meet anyone else.
I work out at the gym in a sports bra and also go swimming, so it would really cause trouble for me. That’s why I make it clear from the start what’s not allowed—for example, no unprotected sex, and nothing dirty or painful. I also include no hickeys on that list.
But I guess he did ask, “Is it okay if I leave one?” In that moment, instead of saying, “Umm, lol,” you should have clearly said no.
If he still won’t stop after you tell him you really want him to, then it’s time to end things.
Marika
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
> Should I just give up and let him cut me off?
I think that would be best.
Assuming you’re prepared for him to cut you off, you could say something like:
“I won’t say anything else from now on, but I really don’t like hickeys. So if you give me one, there’ll be a ¥30,000 fine per mark.”
(Choose an amount you’re comfortable with.)
If he gives you one and you ultimately don’t receive the money, I don’t think you need to see him again.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
I think it’s his way of marking me.
In my case, he starts by licking me, then bites my upper arms, belly, and butt (lol). He bites me over and over until I bruise.
He says biting feels good, but maybe he gets off on hearing me say it hurts?
When he gets way too persistent, I tell him, “I told you it hurts, you idiot!” (angrily), and he says, “But I like you so much.” It’s the same every time.
I don’t know what to do.
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“Your woman,” huh?
Isn’t that basically marking his territory?
Little by little, I guess the fact that this is based on an allowance starts to fade…
If it’s someone I really like, I wouldn’t mind if it lasted a few days—as long as it’s somewhere no one can see.
Sorry, that didn’t really answer your question.
But if you tell him you don’t like it and he does it anyway, I’d say it’s time to say goodbye.
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I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
I honestly don’t understand it. Why do something you don’t want to do…?
I hope you find a papa (a male supporter) who doesn’t pressure you—someone who makes you want to do something nice for him.
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