It’s been a week since I signed up, and I haven’t received a single offer.
I update my comments every day, upload photos, and I’m trying everything I can, but seeing my phone stay completely silent is really getting me down.
(I mean, I’m already pretty depressed.)
Is dating type B really that bad?
I initially chose type C, but after hearing from a friend who’d been yelled at by papas (male supporters) and had other unpleasant experiences when she turned them down, I switched to B because I don’t want to be treated carelessly, like someone picking up a random item at a convenience store.
Or do I already give off such a yandere-girl vibe in my comments that people are avoiding me?
I know it really comes down to finding the right connection, but when no offers come in, I can’t help feeling more and more that maybe someone like me just isn’t cut out for this. It’s painful.
I thought I looked pretty average, but the reality that no offers are coming probably reflects my true evaluation and market value. Honestly.
I also consult with the staff on LINE fairly often. I don’t want to be a nuisance, and I completely understand why men wouldn’t want to choose a woman who seems depressed and difficult, but emotionally, I just can’t keep up.
Is there any way to become more positive?
Right now, it feels like my only options are becoming prickly and attacking other people to protect myself, or sinking completely into depression.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> Is relationship type B really that bad?
I don’t think it’s bad at all.
Types B and C receive about the same number of offers.
However, the kinds of men they attract are different.
Men who are comfortable ending the first meeting with dinner only will make offers to women with type B, while men who are hoping to spend time together after dinner from the very first meeting will make offers to women with type C.
Since it’s only been a week, I think it’s best not to change your type just yet. But if more than a month passes without receiving any offers, and it seems that men looking for type B aren’t interested, trying type C could attract attention from a different group of men.
> Is there any way to become more positive about this?
It’s difficult, but I think it would help if you could come to believe that not receiving offers is a matter of the other person’s preferences, not a reflection of you.
Everyone has good qualities. I think the issue is simply that many people fail to notice those qualities.
The reason you haven’t received any offers yet isn’t your fault.
The men just haven’t recognized what makes you appealing.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
First of all, it’s too soon to worry just because you haven’t received any offers after only a week since registering.
I don’t think being Type B means you’re at a disadvantage. I personally know at least five women I’ve met after making them offers who received more than ten offers in their first month as Type B, and then made their profiles private. If anything, Type A is probably the only type that tends not to receive offers.
That said, in my own case, if there are women I’m equally interested in meeting, I do tend to make an offer to a Type C woman first. I don’t want to be treated casually, but I suppose that also lowers your chances of meeting someone.
I don’t think whether you receive offers is just a matter of looks. Things like your age, whether you’re a student, and whether your profile catches people’s interest seem to matter as well.
Lastly, updating the comments section every day gives off a troubled vibe and makes it seem like you haven’t been able to maintain any ongoing relationships, which puts me off. I wouldn’t make an offer.
Sorry, but I can’t think of any way to help you feel more positive.
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