When we’re having sex, I used to say things like “I like you” in normal relationships unrelated to dating clubs, but I worry that saying things like that to someone I’m seeing through a dating club, where an allowance is involved, would make them uncomfortable, so I try not to.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I think it’s perfectly fine to say “I like you” as many times as you want during H. Go ahead and say it to your heart’s content. However, if you keep saying it even after leaving the hotel, she may start to feel scared, so I think it’s best to switch gears at that point. Of course, if you’ve grown close and it seems okay, I think you can say it outside the hotel too.

I’m Taro, the guy with the itchy penis. You can simply ask her directly. Frame it as a conversation about preferences: “I like this kind of thing—would it bother you if we tried it?” Since this is a money-based relationship rather than one built on love, many women will probably answer honestly. If you want to feel things out, try it during the encounter and pay close attention to her reaction. If she seems to be enjoying it, gradually incorporate more of it; if she seems uncomfortable, stop. Let’s all do our best to be considerate angels. Personally, I don’t have any particular preferences, but I do try to figure out what my partner likes. Some people enjoy affectionate expressions, others like dirty talk, and some prefer simply sharing their reactions and building a feedback loop. There are also women who focus entirely on accommodating the man and go along with anything that comes their way. Everyone’s different.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Uhh… what are they supposed to say? I’m not really sure… I think it’s probably more or less the same as a normal relationship… For me, all I can really think of saying is: “Here I go.” “I’m going…” Women seem to say things at key moments like, “I’m going,” “I’m going, I’m going,” “I’m about to lose it,” “I want it,” “Put it in,” “Come on,” and “Don’t stop.” It’s pretty much the same as outside the club. If you’re compatible and things are flowing at a good pace, I think you can communicate just by responding to how she’s reacting and feeling through your movements, without the man needing to say much. If you’re not compatible, the flow isn’t good, and awkward pauses start to develop, then you may need to ask questions, switch things up, change positions, and have a bit of conversation. I guess it depends on your compatibility. You should probably just go with the natural flow.

Why not try complimenting the woman you’re with on something you like about her? Tell her she’s cute or beautiful, that she has a lovely figure, or that she’s very responsive—anything works, really. Talking too much can be annoying, but silence can feel intimidating too. And I think a lot of girls don’t know how to respond when they’re told things like, “I like you” or “I love you.” Personally, I’m held while being told, “I love you.” Hehe. Marika