I’d like to ask female members in relationship types C through E: Which do you prefer—an arrangement that includes an adult relationship (intimate), or one limited to tea, meals, and dates with no physical intimacy?
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With the woman I’m currently seeing, we only go out for meals or tea. As for the allowance, I ask what she would like and pay according to her terms. On rainy days or when we spend a long time together, I give her a little extra to reflect that.
I understand that what people seek from these arrangements varies from person to person, and that it also depends on how they feel about their partner. However, I’m wondering whether, from the woman’s perspective, being in an arrangement without an adult relationship (intimate) would be less worthwhile and less satisfying financially for women in types C and D.
I’d appreciate hearing your thoughts.
I have just one papa (a male supporter) whose dates are mainly dinner, but I like him, so honestly, I’m always longing to have sex with him.
The other day, he only kissed me on the cheek through my mask, but I was already soaking wet.
His allowance is sometimes even more generous than what I receive from others in adult relationships (intimate).
I only date people I genuinely like, so I don’t really think about efficiency or anything like that.
Am I a little unusual?
Marika
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I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
Your perspective and concerns are completely understandable.
I think you can look at it quite simply.
Regardless of her type, if the allowance is generous enough, she’ll probably be willing to do dinner only (no intimacy).
For women who are Type C or above, unless the allowance for dinner only is particularly generous, they’ll generally prefer an adult relationship (intimate). If you meet frequently, it may not have to be every time, but I’d say an adult relationship at least once a week…?
If you’re not looking for an adult relationship, I think you can avoid the concern by offering the maximum allowance you’re comfortable with—you’re free to offer more than what she requested.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
For example, if a papa said:
“Regardless of the type of relationship, the allowance is 5. Whichever you choose, I’m looking for a long-term arrangement.”
I think more women would choose:
“A relationship limited to tea, meals, and dates, with no adult relationship.”
Women, too, seem to prefer the skin of young, fresh-faced men, if anything.
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