I’m a woman in my 20s considering Universe.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. > A lot of the papas making offers seemed to be looking for “just one mistress.” I’ve wondered if that might apply to me too. In my case, I knew which branch she was registered with, and at first she was actively accepting offers from several men. I figured she probably wasn’t receiving enough support, so I let her do as she pleased—but before I knew it, she had withdrawn from the club. Over time, her relationships with the other men gradually ended, and it seems I became the only one she continued seeing—or at least, I think so. I never asked her to make me her only papa, but she still says I’m her favorite. With us, it feels like things naturally ended up that way（笑） That said, I’ve also decided not to make any new offers while I’m continuing a relationship, so I suppose this arrangement is still ongoing as well. In my experience, during about the first year of a relationship, I was eager—almost desperate—to make new offers. But once more than a year had passed, I found it much easier not to, and it didn’t really bother me anymore（笑）

I’m Flague Maker, a column writer. Are you really asking me that…? My answer is going to be pretty shameless, though… - I’ll make this new girl I just offered my main. - The girl who’s been my main until now has started to feel a bit stale, so I’ll either demote her to a secondary or cut things off. - That girl is fun to talk to and can drink, so I’d like to keep seeing her occasionally—maybe once a month. - Hmm, there’s quite a gap until my next date. Maybe I’ll send a new offer to a Type C woman. - A staff member introduced me to a woman who hasn’t been made public yet. Since the opportunity came up, maybe I’ll send her an offer. That’s more or less my mindset at the moment.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. As a man, I want to be chosen. Whether that means being chosen by one person or several probably depends on the man’s style. When it comes to being chosen, the same can be said of romance and marriage. In those situations, you’d feel uncomfortable if a man told you, “I want you to only see me,” right? It shouldn’t be that you become exclusive because he tells you to. Ideally, it’s something the woman herself comes to want. Whether it’s a dating club, romance, or marriage, I don’t think you should demand it from the other person. Rather, you should hope that they choose you. Even at a club where seeing multiple people is allowed, I think most women, in particular, would dislike being told by a man to see only him. (Some men might be pleased to hear it, though…) In a sense, I think that would also violate the club’s rules. At the same time, it probably reveals a lack of romantic experience and confidence. Women might do well to view it that way and watch over him with some patience and warmth. Because, when you think about it— > I’m looking for emotional comfort. If that’s the case, then saying, “So choose only me,” is something he absolutely shouldn’t say—it’s coercive. There’s quite a contradiction there, and it comes across as rather immature…

Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. It seems there are quite a few men at Universe who want to have an exclusive relationship with someone. I suspect the ratio is probably about the same as at other dating clubs. However, Universe explicitly prohibits trying to make a woman leave the club. So if a man says something like that, you can consult Universe about it. In that sense, I feel there’s at least a little reassurance. > I want to support her, too. Wanting to support someone is a good thing, but it seems common for the amount a man wants to give to be very different from the amount a woman hopes to receive. Even if a woman wants more than ¥1 million a month, I think there are very few men who want to pay more than ¥1 million a month. That’s why many men want to support someone without making the relationship exclusive. Men who want exclusivity don’t seem to understand that very well. If a woman wants more than ¥1 million a month and the man says, “I’ll give you ¥2 million a month,” then I can understand why he’d want exclusivity. But in reality, you don’t hear about many men like that. Maybe it’s simply because the women leave the club, so we never hear about them. Still, if anyone has been in an exclusive arrangement for more than ¥2 million a month, please tell us about it. (笑) Also, from a woman’s perspective, if she is supported by just one man, she will always worry about when he might cut things off. For that reason as well, I think it’s better for women to receive support from multiple men.

Compared with other dating clubs, there tend to be “relatively” more younger members, and the atmosphere is “relatively” casual, so I think quite a few people don’t insist on being your only partner. Of course, there are also people who do ask you to see only them. Marika

I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m not sure what “fairly” means exactly, but it seems there are men who want you to themselves. I’m seeing multiple women. There are several reasons for this: one woman can’t meet all my needs, relying on just one man would be financially risky for her, and I prefer to keep things light and uncomplicated. Even while seeing multiple women, I believe it’s still possible to find emotional comfort and support them.