On the page where men share their impressions of dates, I came across the following comment:
“Even though she was a Type C, she said her period had just started. She should think of a more reasonable way to turn someone down. She’s a person committing dating-type fraud.”
Originally, being Type C does not necessarily mean that an adult relationship (intimate) is guaranteed on that particular day.
I once got my period on the day of a date as well. It was the first time my period had overlapped with a date, so I didn’t know what to do and consulted a staff member.
My periods are irregular, and there have also been times when my period started while I was using the restroom after dinner.
There’s nothing that can be done about that, and women’s bodies are delicate.
Perhaps the female member mentioned above was lying in order to turn him down, but just because someone was refused an adult relationship (intimate), calling it “dating-type fraud” simply because that was the reason given makes him nothing more than a complainer.
Sorry for the long post, even though this wasn’t really a question.
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Yeah, I think so too. It’s pretty pathetic.
Still, it’s better if they’re putting it out there for everyone to see.
Because the staff are probably thinking, “This guy’s seriously bad news!” and keeping an eye on him.
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I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
Even if she wanted to turn him down, that would have been a much more tactful way to handle it… Anything would be better than being told, “I just can’t stand you on a visceral level”…
Still, what an insecure man…
With Letter Date, you can exchange messages beforehand, like, “It looks like we might be wearing matching outfits,” or “I’m really looking forward to meeting you.” You can gauge his reactions and decide whether to move forward, then make your final judgment when you meet in person.
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I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this as well.
I assume you mean that you want to know how to turn him down properly.
If you’re going to use your period as the reason, that implies you would have been willing to meet if you weren’t on your period. So, if you don’t want him to think you’re being dishonest, you could say something like:
“I’ll go to the hotel with you and prove that I’m telling the truth.”
That should keep him from accusing you of being dishonest.
Even if your period has started, you could also say:
“I don’t have the courage today. Could you ask me again next week? I think I’ll be able to accept then.”
I think that would be fine too.
Women have it tough as well, but I hope you can handle the situation with a little quick thinking.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m sure most of the men who read that were thinking, “That’s exactly why women in Category C turn you down.” So there’s no reason for you to let it bother you.
I can just picture the staff member’s awkward smile when they received that feedback, haha.
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