I’m a female member, and I have a question about sex with a man I’ve been seeing for about six months.
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He likes taking the lead and has mentioned before that he likes submissive women. When we have sex, I’m completely passive.
I always feel really good, but since he’s always the one taking the lead, I’m a little worried he might find it repetitive or get bored with me.
I’m wondering if it would be better to add some variety, like taking the initiative and taking the lead sometimes. How do men who like being dominant feel about a woman suddenly taking the lead?
Thank you.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
When a woman suddenly becomes more proactive, you may find yourself wanting to ask unnecessary things like, “Where did you learn that?” But you shouldn’t let it bother you.
You’re only saying that because you’re surprised and pleased.
If you have the mental strength not to be discouraged by it, I think men will ultimately be happy. They’ll likely feel glad that you’re doing something like that for them.
However, a man who likes to take the lead will probably want to do so again once he’s reasonably satisfied. So try to pick up on those signs and, without missing the timing, let him take the lead.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male club member.
The woman I’ve been seeing the longest—and who’s by far my favorite—is also the one I’m most compatible with, so I’ve never felt the need to be caressed by her.
You could say we’re able to save that as something to look forward to later. If the chemistry is right, it’s perfectly fine without it. In my entire life, there have only been very few women like her.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think men who enjoy taking the lead are satisfied when they get good reactions from their partner.
Since this has been going on for six months, he’s probably satisfied with your reactions.
He might be caught off guard if you suddenly take the lead, so rather than just doing it out of the blue, you could say, “I feel bad that you’re always the one doing things for me, so I’d like to take the lead sometimes too,” and ask what he’d like you to do.
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