Tips
Mar 28, 2021 18:21
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I’d like to hear from married female members I’ve made offers to, as well as from anyone who has continued seeing a married female member.
The woman I made an offer to is a Platinum member in her mid-20s and a Type B. We had our first date and even made plans to meet a second time, so I took it to mean that she must have had an enjoyable time with me.
While we were arranging the date and time for our second meeting, she mentioned that she wanted to leave by 8:30 p.m. When I asked, within reason, if she could tell me why, she told me that she was married.
Her profile didn’t mention that she was married, and it said she was in her early 20s, so I was completely surprised. I hadn’t imagined that she was married at all.
I’d like to continue seeing her, but I would appreciate any tips or advice on how to proceed—including whether you think I should stop seeing her. I’d be grateful to hear a variety of opinions. Thank you.
2 answers
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
Compensation for an affair is only around ¥3 million, right? No big deal.
If she’s a good woman, go for it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
I believe I’ve answered questions about this a few times in the past. Did you happen to skip over them?
Well, it’s difficult to say how effective this is, but I think it’s better than doing nothing.
First of all, if you’re worried, unfortunately, the safest option is to end the relationship.
That said, many people don’t end up having any trouble. I think that’s because neither person wants problems. Also, there’s a good chance the woman is experiencing a “dead bedroom” (not lesbianism, haha), and that her husband may not be particularly interested in her.
In that case, one option is to trust your good luck and continue seeing her.
However, when doing so, I think you should send her something like:
“You’re single, right? You’re not married, correct?”
Then have her reply via LINE or another messaging app:
“Yes, I’m single. I’m not married.”
You should save that exchange as evidence.
If you’re married too, I think you should do the same thing in reverse.
This won’t help if the two of you conspired to make false statements, but if there was no such conspiracy, I feel it could be effective to some extent.
The reasoning would be that you were seeing her under the genuine belief that she was single, and therefore couldn’t be blamed.
Strictly speaking, someone might say you should obtain a certificate of single status. But considering that most people in Japan start dating without asking for one, I don’t think it would necessarily be fair to say you were at fault simply because you didn’t obtain one.
Ultimately, it’s difficult to say for sure, since things can depend on the ability of your lawyer and the impression you make on the judge.