I’m pregnant with my papa’s baby. I’ve only had sex with him, so there’s no possibility it could be anyone else’s. We’ve only met a few times and were about to move into a monthly arrangement, but I honestly feel like such an idiot.
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I haven’t told my papa anything yet, but to the men here: if someone you’re seeing told you she was pregnant with your child, how would you respond?
Would you feel guilty or think it was too much and just give her money for the procedure before saying goodbye?
This is Seattle.
If it were me, I’d probably give her ¥500,000 every month until the child turned 18—¥108 million over 18 years. If I could see the child regularly, watching them grow would be wonderful, and I’d be happy if the child was happy.
I can’t raise a child. If she chose to have an abortion, I’d be willing to pay around ¥10 million after negotiating the terms.
Men who can’t do that and then run off have no business having unprotected sex. Hire a private investigator, consult a lawyer, and make sure you get compensation, no matter what.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
Have you already gathered information such as where the man works and other personal details? Since you’re currently discussing a monthly arrangement, he may be willing to tell you those things at this point.
I think you should gather that information first before deciding whether to tell him about the pregnancy.
Not all men are decent, and some may suddenly become unreachable the moment you tell them.
Some men may ask things like, “Is the baby really mine?” or “Has the club had any other victims of this kind of scam?”
There are also strange men who assume that a woman is lying because she wants money.
That said, not every man is like that. Some will handle the situation properly. A good man wouldn’t do those things, so I hope the two of you can get through this together.
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I’m Papahikoki, a male member.
I’m sure you’re worried about the man’s initial reaction.
From a man’s perspective, that split-second reaction is important, and depending on his expression, your feelings may be affected too.
Based on my own experience, I first respond with something like, “Oh, really?” or “That’s great,” and show my happiness.
It only lasts a moment, but I think that brief reaction can make a big difference in how relieved and reassured the woman feels.
Then I listen to what she wants.
After that, we simply continue seeing each other as before.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I would apologize and ask her what she wants to do.
If she wanted an abortion, I believe a consent form would be required, so I’d ask whether I needed to sign one. At the same time, of course, I’d offer to cover the costs and pay compensation.
I’d also ask what she wanted to do about our relationship going forward. If she wanted to continue seeing me, I’d be willing to continue as well. However, I’d be much more careful about contraception.
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