Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering your question.
Thank you for asking.
As you said, if you can’t spread your legs very far, the missionary position might be painful. However, Japan has 48 different sex positions.
It might be worth trying positions that don’t cause pain.
**Shigarami**
The woman lies on her back with her legs together, while the man enters from above, staying close against her.
**Ushiro Yagura**
The woman stands with her hands against a wall and her bottom pushed out, while the man supports her hips and enters from behind.
**Goban Zeme**
The woman places her hands on a table or bed and stands with her bottom pushed toward the man, who enters from behind.
**Miyama**
The woman lies on her back while the man holds up her legs, lifting her bottom slightly as he enters.
**Naruto**
The woman sits on the seated man’s lap as he supports her and rotates her hips.
**Chausu Nobashi**
The woman lies on top of the man, keeping her legs together as they have sex.
**Shime Komata**
The woman lies on her back with her legs extended and together. The man lies over her and enters between her thighs.
**Mado no Tsuki**
The man enters the woman from behind while they lie on their sides.
If you search for them, you’ll find that there are many positions that don’t require you to spread your legs.
> Do men prefer women who are flexible?
I don’t think that really matters much.
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m not joking—I want to learn capoeira once COVID settles down, so I’m working on doing the splits by then.
There are actually quite a few videos on learning to do the splits.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I also thought this was a question from Papuwa-san（笑）.
At a dating club, I’ve never met a woman who said her body was stiff and spreading her legs was difficult. However, when I was younger, I dated a woman who was quite inflexible, without any allowance involved. I remember adjusting our positions at the time. Specifically, instead of using the missionary position, we would use a bent-leg position. Since I did that when I had little sexual experience, I still have a habit of not spreading a woman’s legs even when using the missionary position, and leaning over her in something halfway between the bent-leg and missionary positions.
It’s similar to the earlier discussions about swallowing and folding underwear: habits formed in childhood stay with you for life.
Come to think of it, when I had just registered with Universe, I once made an offer to a woman because she said she did ballet and was very flexible. I had been aroused several times by watching AV where the woman spread her legs incredibly wide, so I wondered whether I would get excited if I actually had sex with someone who could do that.
In the end, I wasn’t particularly aroused, and it wasn’t physically pleasurable either. So in my case, I get excited watching someone else have sex with their legs spread incredibly wide, but when I actually tried it, it wasn’t anything special.
So I think you should look for a position that isn’t painful for you. That said, honestly, I do appreciate women who don’t seem uncomfortable with their legs raised, because it gives me one less thing to worry about. I’ve lost the youthful ability to stay erect even when changing positions or getting distracted once I’m aroused.
You could ask a young papa (a male supporter) who can keep going without losing his erection while trying various positions to help you find one that’s comfortable. Or, even if he does lose it, you could patiently help get him back in the mood. I think it’s worth trying. Finding the right position should be easier than making your body flexible from scratch, and once you find it, it can benefit you for the rest of your life.
An addition after reading Mac’s answer:
The fact that I’m not particularly well-endowed may also be why I settled on this modified bent-leg position. I only use one of these three positions: the modified bent-leg position, from behind, or the woman-on-top position.
I like the line from a woman’s waist to her hips, so visually, I prefer from behind. However, it’s difficult to get her hips to the height that feels good while I’m penetrating her from behind. I feel there’s a physical compatibility issue between the height at which she can comfortably raise her hips and the height above my knees.
The woman-on-top position is my favorite and the easiest for adjusting things so that the parts that feel good for me are moving in and out. To adjust the depth of penetration, I can support her hips from underneath with my hands. I can also see what’s happening, which is visually exciting as well.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
My longtime girlfriend is flat-chested and has practiced ballet since she was little. She has great posture, a lovely figure, is very toned, and is flexible, but none of that has anything to do with how good or satisfying sex is.
I don’t think there’s any correlation.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Just look at sumo wrestlers. There are plenty of techniques that don’t require you to do the splits, so I don’t think it’s anything to worry about. That said, having some flexibility is better than being stiff.
If you keep working at it, your body should gradually become a little more flexible.
Rather than worrying about being stiff, it’s far more important to keep making an effort and think about how to approach men with the body you have. I think it would be a good idea to discuss it with the man.
