I’m a female member. For those of you seeing someone, how many times a month do you usually meet?

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer this one too. Thanks for your question. Some people meet every week, while others meet just once a month, so I don’t think asking here will really give you a clear answer. That said, if you originally met twice a month but can now only meet once, there’s probably some reason for it. For example, the year-end and New Year period is always busy, so they may have said they can’t meet as often right now. It’s also possible that the number of meetings has decreased because a state of emergency was declared and going out has become more difficult. Or they may simply have taken a liking to another woman, so they’re meeting you less often. Whatever the reason, there’s not much you can do right now. I think it’s best to focus on making a little more effort whenever you do meet. As long as the number of meetings hasn’t dropped to zero, there’s still a chance things will return to how they were. The moments you do meet are your chance to make an impression.

I’m a male member, だて◎ゆめ. In my case, we’ve been meeting twice a month, every other week, since we started seeing each other. The woman prefers a pay-per-meeting arrangement, but I make sure the total monthly allowance stays the same even when I’m too busy to meet or we only have a short meeting.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. The frequency depends on how much disposable income I have that month. When I’m short on extra cash, I have no pride about it, so I’m honest with the women: “I spent money on ○○ this month, so I have less to spend on our arrangement. Could you wait until payday? Until then, I can only offer dinner only (no intimacy). Sorry m(_ _;)m” I might even tell them more about where my money goes than I tell my wife（笑） I used to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without setting a budget, but now I plan everything around a set budget, so months like this are bound to happen.

I’m Hikōki, a male member. I see the girls I really like every week. For the others, it starts at twice a month, then gradually becomes once a month… and eventually, we meet only when our schedules happen to line up. Among my weekly favorites, there’s only been one girl whose frequency of meetings gradually increased beyond that. Like that person from Kabuki, if someone really wants to see you, they’ll make time—even in the middle of the night or early in the morning. So if they can’t meet you, it might mean the opposite…

I’m Kazu, a male member. I see the woman I meet most often four to six times a month. There are also two women I meet once or twice a month, plus several others I meet anywhere from zero to once a month, rotating in and out. These days, I only make a few arrangements a month, but until last fall, I was making offers and going on first dates almost every weekday. There were even times when I had multiple dates set up in a single day. I wrote about “slots” before: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5293 I think every man has a certain number of slots available, depending on his physical needs, how much time he can make, and his budget. On top of that, how he uses those slots probably depends on whether he prefers deepening a relationship with the same person or meeting new people. So there’s no simple answer as to why someone can only meet once a month. I made a quick list of reasons that came to mind: - His budget only allows for one slot a month. - He only has time for one slot a month. - The papa only wants to meet once a month. - There’s another woman he prioritizes more. - There are lots of women trying to secure a spot in his schedule. - He simply loves making offers to new women. Even a rough breakdown gives you this many possible reasons. In my case, I like it when women ranked around first to third priority ask me honestly, “I’d like to earn more in allowance. What could I do to increase the amount of allowance I receive from Kazu each month?” In fact, the women ranked first and second are people who asked me that. Of course, men all have different preferences when it comes to how they want to be approached, so do your best to find an approach that works.

It’s Seattle. The reason he can only do once a month is probably because he has plenty of women.