I like sex itself, and since starting university I’ve had friends-with-benefits, received offers, and enjoyed spending time with my papas, but I still find myself wondering if this is all pleasure is supposed to feel like. I keep hoping I’ll experience something even more pleasurable, but I just can’t seem to get there.
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I often find myself thinking about other things, so maybe I can’t fully immerse myself in the moment. Or maybe I’ve become detached from it somehow. I don’t even know the cause myself.
I dream of being able to experience a sensation so intense that I can forget reality, even more than with alcohol or cigarettes—lol.
What can I do to make this dream come true?
I’d like to make it one of my goals for this year, so I’d really appreciate your advice!
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Some women never get to climax together with their partner, no matter how long they live, so you’re pretty fortunate.
You should be grateful you never came to hate sex.
You have a long future ahead of you…
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Sex is basically just that, after all. Rather than setting your expectations too high, I think one way to enjoy it more is to see it as an extension of communication between men and women and simply savor the experience.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Thank you for your question.
It seems that for many women, whether they can feel pleasure depends on whether they like the person they’re with. Of course, some women are naturally more sensitive, and apparently there are even women who can respond despite being with someone they dislike, but I think that’s rare.
If that’s the case, you may be like most women, so perhaps you first need to develop feelings for your partner.
I’ve also heard that after being with someone exceptionally skilled, it becomes easier to climax from then on, but I feel that’s still more of an urban legend.
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I’m in Seattle.
I really like Pappuwa’s new character—it’s pretty wild.
That’s about what sex with someone you don’t even like is like. Hopefully, you’ll meet someone you can genuinely like, even just a little.
Finding lots of hobbies or saving money can be fun. Most dreams can come true.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I have trouble getting fully immersed too, and sometimes find myself thinking about things like that. Once I start, it kills the mood, which is frustrating.
I think you could try telling the man exactly what you’d like him to do. With just one man, things usually end once he finishes, so you might also consider being with multiple men. To start with, why not look for a trustworthy papa who’s interested in trying some kinky things?
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