I’m new to this. I met a female member for the first time (she said it was her third date), had tea, and we started seeing each other that same day.
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We parted after I said, “I look forward to seeing you from now on. I’ll message you on LINE!” She contacted me the next day to thank me, but since then, she’s left my messages unread and hasn’t responded (sob).
How long would you wait before giving up when someone leaves your messages unread?
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It seems that women these days don’t check LINE as often, and quite a few people have over 100 unread messages.
So I think it’s best to assume that she’s simply that kind of person.
How long you should wait before giving up depends on how you feel. You could wait with the mindset that she might reply eventually.
That said, you should of course continue making offers to other women as well.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
First of all:
If she doesn’t reply within 20 minutes after you part ways, it’s best to give up. Normally, you’ll get a reply right away or within 5–10 minutes—even if she later leaves your replies unread.
If she doesn’t reply until the next day, you should probably give up already…
P.S. Wait, she left you on read after the arrangement?
Was she unhappy with the allowance, or was there some serious complaint…?
I’ve never had a girl I was involved with leave me on read, so I don’t think they’ll cut things off unless they’re dissatisfied or unhappy.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since I don’t chase anyone, I never have to wonder whether I should give up. These days, I only meet women who respond positively to my offers and stay in active contact. Before long, my schedule fills up with women who actually reach out, and it makes things much easier.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
There’s no set standard for “giving up.”
You’ve given up when you decide you have.
When it comes to someone I’ve chosen, I’m pretty bad at giving up.
That said, I never hound them.
I might send them a casual message after three weeks, three months, or half a year. If they still don’t reply, I might finally give up. That could even be a year later, though（笑).
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