Tips Feb 17, 2020 20:10

I’m a female member. Lately, I’ve been receiving sudden offers the day before or even on the same day. I’m certainly grateful, but I’m rarely free at such short notice, and since they don’t suggest any alternative dates, I feel terrible, but I end up turning most of them down.

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I do include some information about my availability in the comments, but I get the feeling that not all male members read it carefully. Do men who make last-minute offers generally do so pretty casually? Is it more of a “might as well ask” kind of thing?
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I don’t have much experience to draw from, but I’ve never made an offer the day before or on the day itself. The reasons are that I really want to meet them, and I feel I’m generally more flexible with my schedule. That said, when an offer is declined or canceled, I still get disappointed and think, “Ah… I guess it’s not going to happen after all!”(笑)
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here. There are two types of last-minute offers. The first is when a man suddenly has a business trip or something similar and wants to meet someone today or tomorrow. That doesn’t mean just anyone will do, so he chooses from a list of potential women. That’s how these last-minute offers reach women. So it’s not that your profile hasn’t been viewed. They’re contacting you in case you happen to be available and would be happy to meet on short notice. The other type is something I can’t go into here, but it does come up occasionally. I imagine this question comes from the feeling that you could go on a date if only the offer came with a few days’ notice. However, various circumstances are involved, so it may be best to think of it as someone looking for a person who can meet on short notice.
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