I'm a male member. If I make an offer to a female member and she turns me down after the proposed dates haven't worked out twice, should I assume the real reason is that she was rejecting me personally?

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well. > Even though I proposed two possible dates, neither worked with her schedule. If by “two” you mean one date each time, I’d say that’s fairly normal. If you really want to know whether she’s rejecting you, I think it may help to say when making the offer: “I’ll work around your schedule.” This can be difficult if you can’t be flexible with your own schedule, but quite a few men do use this approach. It’s a double-edged sword, but it can be effective when you’re wondering which is the case, as you are this time. That said, please be careful: if you say you’ll work around her schedule, you can’t then turn around and say that date doesn’t work for you. Please keep that in mind.