I’m a male member.

This is columnist Saito♪ “¥800,000 a month, and she’s only with me.” Women like that are seeing other men too. You’re not her one and only. As long as you don’t find out, what does it matter? There are tons of women like that. Isn’t it enough if she treats you well while you’re together? It all depends on how you choose to look at it. If you don’t have much money, you can make up for it to some extent by treating her thoughtfully on your dates. To begin with, do you really think a serious, respectable woman would choose to join a dating club? Give it some thought.

Maezawa here. > Do you get used to the guilt? If you feel guilty now, I think you’d be better off enjoying life with your wife alone. I don’t think you can truly enjoy a dating club while continuing to feel guilty. That said, if you’re simply asking whether you’ll get used to it, I feel you probably will. But whether getting used to it is actually a good thing is another question. > I always use condoms and get tested for STIs, of course... First, do what you can yourself. That may sound obvious, but many people fail to do even that, so the fact that you are taking those precautions means you seem to be managing the risks reasonably well. As for what lies beyond your own control, I think you have to decide for yourself how to deal with those risks. Ultimately, it comes down to how much risk you’re willing to accept. Still, as long as you’re properly doing everything you can, I believe the risk is greatly reduced. I have no evidence for this, but if you’re taking those precautions, I find myself thinking the risk is about the same as the chance of the plane you’re on crashing. (Do you refuse to fly because planes can crash, or do you fly because the probability of a crash is extremely low...?) > Is everyone really that wealthy? There are certainly wealthy people. But I don’t think everyone is rich, and even among wealthy people, how much they spend depends on the individual. I don’t think you should worry too much about other people. That said, if you want to have a woman all to yourself, the bar will naturally be higher—especially if she’s popular. Even so, it depends on the woman. As in the case of the person asking the question at the link below, some women simply hope to find one good person. https://universe-club.jp/help/admin/detail/1885 It might be a good idea to look for someone like that.