Do you change your allowance depending on the age of an older papa when having an adult relationship?

If it’s really that difficult, can you honestly put up with it just for a slightly higher allowance? Why not end things, move on quickly, and wait for an offer from someone with a normal-sized penis? That said, I’ve also had a hard time dealing with someone who was only well-endowed, so I do feel bad saying that... But “elderly” and “bad breath + delayed ejaculation + a huge penis” are two different things.

Some people apparently adjust the allowance depending on the other person’s age. When asked why, they say it’s because they would prefer to be with someone as close to their own age as possible. I thought it was an interesting way of looking at things, but from a biological perspective—or perhaps an instinct to preserve the species?—maybe that’s actually the more natural feeling. Incidentally, it seems that quoting a higher allowance to someone much older is basically a way of turning them down. In this case, it sounds like you want to increase the amount from the first meeting, but that’s extremely difficult. If you don’t mind not seeing this person again, you can simply tell them the amount you want. However, in that case, it’s more likely that the arrangement will end. I think you’ll probably have to decide whether to continue with a monthly arrangement at the current allowance or part ways. If you’re willing to negotiate even at the risk of ending things, it may be worth proposing an increase in a way that also benefits the other person. For example: “Could you increase the allowance if we can do it as many times as we want during the allotted time?” (Since it takes a while each time based on what you’ve said, the idea would be that even if you say “as many times as we want,” you’d probably only be able to do it once.) That said, going forward, I think you should only agree from the first meeting onward to an amount you’re comfortable with.

Setting aside the issue of his age, I don’t understand why you’re asking, “What’s the best way to ask for more money?” Why not just say, “Actually, I’d prefer to do this on a pay-per-meeting basis at ¥X”? More importantly, if you dislike him that much, why not just cut him loose instead of agonizing over the amount? If you can’t find anyone else, I guess that means this papa is a match for you—so stop complaining and do your part. You either put up with it or quit. Apparently, you can try to “train” a low-paying papa, but that takes host-level skills, so I don’t think an ordinary person can pull it off.

I haven’t heard of anyone changing their terms based on age, but I often hear that they decide whether to continue depending on the person and the allowance. I’ve also never heard of anyone haggling over the allowance every single time.