I happened to walk past the Baskin-Robbins where we used to get ice cream when we were dating, and it brought back memories of that time.

When I was in my twenties, I dated a Black man who was studying in Japan. He proposed to me, but my parents opposed the relationship, so we never got married. His full lips kissed my ear, neck, and mouth, making my body feel like it was melting. He was also incredibly intense in bed—especially with his hip movements—and after being with him, I felt so weak that I thought my body couldn’t take it. The man I’m currently seeing is a Japanese man in his forties. We have great conversations, we’re sexually compatible, and I’m very satisfied. Does sexual stamina or intensity vary by race?