Tips
Jan 5, 2024 02:34
Recently, I’ve been seeing a lot of questions about overseas papas, so I wanted to ask this, even knowing I may be criticized.
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1. Some overseas papas may offer incredibly generous allowances, but if someone really could continue receiving several million yen, wouldn’t there also be major risks along with the benefits? What do you think?
2. Regardless of whether they’re overseas or in Japan, are there women who continuously receive several million yen in allowance every month?
3. I only have one partner. On average, we meet about twice a month, usually for meals, drives, and visits to a love hotel. My allowance is around 100,000 yen a month, and I feel that’s more than enough.
The reasons are:
① I work during the day and frequently travel abroad for business, so I’m very busy. I also need time for my hobbies and rest, so I can only spend relaxed time together about twice a month.
② As for the amount of the allowance, I don’t want to lose my sense of money, because I want to be able to support myself and live independently while working even if we eventually part ways. 100,000 yen a month is about one-third of my take-home pay from my day job.
I’m sure women join for all kinds of reasons.
Some people may believe that the more allowance you receive, the better, and that overseas papas are amazing. But everyone has their own way of thinking, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with seeing things differently.
As responder Kazu-san said:
“It seems to be quite different from that. I’ve heard quite a few really dangerous stories.”
I’m sure things like that happen often.
And as responder Dateyume-san said:
“I honestly have no idea what the truth is, but in this world, there’s always someone above you—and someone below you.”
I believe that’s true as well.
However, I feel that things in life are rarely as easy as they sound, and even when they are, they usually don’t last very long. If someone decides to pursue this kind of arrangement, they need to keep not only the benefits but also the disadvantages and major risks in mind.
Am I thinking about this the wrong way?
