Regarding the poster who said, “After meeting five women, I didn’t meet anyone with the resolve or qualities to become a mistress.”

Men join these clubs seeking “pseudo-romance,” while women join seeking “money,” so they’re starting from completely different places. I wonder if overcoming that barrier and developing the relationship into pseudo-romance depends on the man’s skill. If you decide, “This woman isn’t right!” after meeting her only once, it seems difficult for a pseudo-romantic relationship to develop. There is one man with whom I eventually developed a relationship where I didn’t receive any cash. Unlike other men, he absolutely never asked for a second round or oral sex. I was deeply touched by how kind he was compared with other men, and after going on dozens of dates, I was the one who asked him to stop paying me. Now, we spend as many hours together as we like, have as many rounds as we like, and I’m open to any kind of intimacy. I later learned from him that he had actually wanted a second round and oral sex, but he held back because what worried him most was that I might dislike him and stop seeing him. Unlike him, most men seem to have a sex-work mentality of “I’m going to get my money’s worth,” so from a woman’s perspective, there aren’t many men with the resolve or qualities to become a papa (a male supporter). I suppose it goes both ways. Since women are generally younger and less experienced than men, if you want a mistress, I think you need the ability to nurture a woman into becoming one. What do the rest of you think? There are hardly any posts from female staff or female members, and the answers are always from the men’s side, so I’d especially like to hear from women.