Tips Aug 18, 2023 00:32

A question about transportation expenses.

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Today, I went on my first dinner date and exchanged contact information with him, but I wasn’t given any transportation money when we parted. I had assumed that the man would hand it to me in something like a small gift envelope at the end of the date… I live in Setagaya, so transportation costs aren’t particularly high and it wasn’t a burden for me. But if someone lived in Boso, Chiba, or even somewhere like Takaido in Tokyo, I imagine the travel expenses could become a burden. I also wondered whether this might affect other female members, so I wanted to ask. A question for the male members: How do you usually give transportation money to the woman you’re meeting?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Before meeting again, make sure to clarify it over LINE. If he’s vague or says he won’t pay, don’t meet him, and give the club feedback. Your papa (a male supporter) may think you’re someone he can conveniently see for free. Be careful. The first meeting sets the tone. If you’re too lenient at the start, that will become the default, so keep that in mind.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I hand over the allowance soon after we meet. Specifically, once we’re seated at the restaurant, the menus have arrived, and the server has stepped away.
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