When you first join a club, do you want to offer to meet lots of different girls and have fun with them?

> I really liked this man, so I was completely devastated. I wanted to be with one person long-term… There was no intimate relationship, but he was someone I could see a future with. > In the end, we parted ways, but I guess my feelings were too much for him. It wasn’t that you were too much—you simply didn’t move things forward. Since this is an allowance-based relationship, you have to be proactive when you find someone you like（笑） Even aside from that, there are plenty of unseen rivals. > When you’ve just joined a dating club, do you want to make offers to lots of girls and have fun with them? > Once you’ve settled down, would you narrow it down to one person? Dating clubs come with various risks, so in my case, once I’ve achieved what I joined for, I stick with one person until she’s the one who says she wants to end the relationship. I’m sure there are plenty of better women out there, but I’m just me, so I don’t set my standards particularly high. I’m happy enough thinking, “Well, I guess this is good enough（笑）” Since we started seeing each other, we’ve exchanged messages once a day, gone on two dates a month, and continued with a fixed monthly allowance for nearly five years now. Neither of us has grown tired of it, and we still keep in touch every day. These days, we’ve actually become much closer friends than we were at the beginning. The problem is that I’m an old man and she’s a young woman, so we look extremely unnatural together（笑）

> There was no physical relationship between us. That’s the part that stands out to me the most. If he was looking for an intimate relationship, it seems only natural that he would want to meet other girls as well. Even before considering whether he simply wanted to play the field, I can’t help wondering if he was dissatisfied because things hadn’t progressed with you.